Thanks, it means a lot to have somewhere to get support.Please keep us informed, good luck we are here for you x
Thanks, it means a lot to have somewhere to get support.Please keep us informed, good luck we are here for you x
I can understand you being pissed off but you will soon be in a job where the work life is better, your mental health is better. It will be a huge relief when you walk out the door for the last time and moving on, you couldn't stay where you were. Remember as one door closes, another door opens. Good luck with the next chapter in your life, you will soon find a job xSo, I handed in my notice. I'm finished at the end of the month. I'm pissed off, as the money was good and the job was local. I'll probably end up less well off financially. But I've made my decision and I have to stick by it.
I'll be flat out on tattle soon!
Do you live in a very small area (the type of town where everyone knows everyone?)So, i Just want to give an update. I finished my job 4 months ago. I had an exit interview, and told HR about the bullying, and I had gone to my manager and he didn't want to know. Big mistake. I have been applying for jobs, and am not having any luck. I was supposed to have a second interview this week and it was cancelled. I was contacted about several jobs, and didn't get called for an interview. I have a feeling that my ex boss or colleagues are bad mouthing me. I am devastated. I am considering contacting a solicitor about it. I am broke and bored, and feel like I will never get another job because of the bullies.
I absolutely could go above him, but I don't want to. I'm not in the right frame of mind, plus I don't want to get a bad name. The industry is quite close knit and word would get round.How big is the company you work for, can you go above your manager, to HR for example?
Aw OP I am really sorry to hear this is going on. Nothing worse than a bully, it speaks volumes about them more than anything.As the title says, I think I'm being bullied by my work colleagues. We started around the same time in a new company. All was great for a while, then they turned on me. I was going through a bad time, and was in bad form and they reported me. Then it escalated. They are being really subtle, nobody else would notice, only me. They undermine me when they can, they exclude me from discussions. They were talking about the weather and I commented about a website that I follow, and they keep mentioning it as a dig at me. One of them was being OK with me, then she turned against me again. I tried calling her on teams, and she didn't answer so I messaged her and she replied straight away, so she just didn't want to talk to me.
I feel broken, I don't want to go back to work next week. It is really affecting me. I've tried to ignore their snideness and be nice to them, but I can't do it anymore. I spent most of the weekend crying.
I am looking for another job, but I don't know how much longer I can go on like this.
Wouldn't it be great if someone could call him out on that or acknowledge you.So, in our morning zoom meeting, I log in. Colleagues all in, boss not logged in yet. Last colleague logs in, say 'good morning men'. I'm the only female. . Put me in bad form all day. Why are people such cunts.
Ok so this has kind of happened to me at work in the past and I think there are three options I would go down. 1. Tell your manager your concerns if she/ he doesnât take you seriously then you should go to HR. 2. This is what I did told people to wind their neck in and basically work hard and try not to give a shit about them eventually people get bored or angered that you arenât bothered alternatively you should ask them why they have an issue with you and itâs upsetting you maybe they will think about it more. Usually I just mutter fuck off very quietly so they can hear me but only just but no one else can itâs childish but makes me feel better or I confront them 3. Leave - this is the last resort and you should not have to get to this point. In my experience a lot of people are out for themselves at work think about you and forget them. X edited: keep a diary of dates and times I was told to do this with a senior manager once however I ended up telling another manager that I felt so stressed and upset because of him and they removed him from my office and put him in a separate office so he wasnât on my shoulder barking at me continuously xAs the title says, I think I'm being bullied by my work colleagues. We started around the same time in a new company. All was great for a while, then they turned on me. I was going through a bad time, and was in bad form and they reported me. Then it escalated. They are being really subtle, nobody else would notice, only me. They undermine me when they can, they exclude me from discussions. They were talking about the weather and I commented about a website that I follow, and they keep mentioning it as a dig at me. One of them was being OK with me, then she turned against me again. I tried calling her on teams, and she didn't answer so I messaged her and she replied straight away, so she just didn't want to talk to me.
I feel broken, I don't want to go back to work next week. It is really affecting me. I've tried to ignore their snideness and be nice to them, but I can't do it anymore. I spent most of the weekend crying.
I am looking for another job, but I don't know how much longer I can go on like this.
Are you in a union? You might be able to get a union rep if you decide to go above him. If you absolutely can't go above him, then perhaps it might be best to get another job but don't forget to shame the company on Indeed reviews.I absolutely could go above him, but I don't want to. I'm not in the right frame of mind, plus I don't want to get a bad name. The industry is quite close knit and word would get round.
Are they giving you bad references? If so, they will have to prove that, and they could be done legally.So, i Just want to give an update. I finished my job 4 months ago. I had an exit interview, and told HR about the bullying, and I had gone to my manager and he didn't want to know. Big mistake. I have been applying for jobs, and am not having any luck. I was supposed to have a second interview this week and it was cancelled. I was contacted about several jobs, and didn't get called for an interview. I have a feeling that my ex boss or colleagues are bad mouthing me. I am devastated. I am considering contacting a solicitor about it. I am broke and bored, and feel like I will never get another job because of the bullies.
Itâs not the fashion industry by any chance is it?No union unfortunately.
Yes, hopefully I'll get another job. I'm beginning to shame them. I'd been holding the bullying to myself for months, but now I'm telling people.