I messaged him last year when it came out he had been messaging men on Only Fans etc, when all I knew was he'd done something a bit dodgy but legal. Just said I hoped he was ok and that what happened between consenting adults was their business. I forgot all about it until someone said he was using his socials again. I went on LinkedIn and felt awful about the nice supportive message I'd sent so I retracted it for my own sake as it never occurred to me he'd be looking at it!
Anyway, I got this.
There was more conversation as I went back going "you wot?!?!" but I feel uncomfortable screenshotting the lot as ultimately this was a private conversation so this is just to prove to you I'm not lying. Also because a bit of me is taken aback that he would respond thus and stupid as it sounds I began doubting myself.
In short, the conversation reminded me of the statement given where he was 'disappointed" in his family not being supportive enough with his mental health. I can easily imagine what it was like living, and working, with him. It would be terrible. It's upsetting just thinking about.
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I'm sorry, I've taken it down as I feel uncomfortable having it up there. I feel it exposes me even though I removed my name.
But for reference I had written:
"obviously I know now what you did - or rather didn't do. Shame on you for not reporting images of child sexual abuse."
He wrote back: "Bread - when you understand the gravity of severe mental disorder, prolonged hospital stays, suicide attempts, complete loss of sanity, you might - just might - be able to pass judgement. Until that time please steer clear. I was deeply grateful for your supportive comment last year."
I feel sickened by it because he has no idea what I've gone through and there's no shame in his response.
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Also, no mention of the children. Not one!