How to deal with demanding bride.

Becca0888 said:

I am fine with the makeup she has chose as like you said, it’s soft glam, just I’m peeved off at the fact I have to pay for it along with everything else. I have explained to her that I could do my own makeup, I have heels from previous weddings but it’s not what she wants. She wants us to have our hair down with pearls scattered on one side, I suffer with alopecia really bad on the top of my head, which would be very visible if I went with the hairstyle she’s chosen, I have tried asking/showing her pictures of hairstyles that are not only similar to her chosen one but also beneficial for my alopecia but she’s having none of it and told me that I should buy those hair root touch up sprays, which yet again I can not use as my alopecia is bad and my doctor as not recommend it due to the severity.

I am also a recently widowed single mother, juggling 2 jobs and 2 children, so as you could imagine it’s really not easy affording everything when I do not have a say or can’t switch things up for a cheaper alternative.
when my sister asked me to be her Maid of honour, she made it very clear that she would be paying for everything bar the shoes as it’s her wedding and if she wants us to look a certain way then she would be happy to fit the bill! This was up until she realised everything she wants for her dream wedding isn’t cheap, the wedding is now on a tight budget so now she’s wanting us to pay, although it’s still the same items she was willing to pay for.

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