Or it could of all be done within the rules.
My aunt and uncle have had a lot of money in their lifetime. At one point my uncles tax bill alone was £300,000 for the years and that was years ago! They have now got next to nothing. They are selling their £1.5m home in England to move to Scotland to get free care in their later years.
My parents in the other hand have been very careful with their cash, saved and would be expected to fund their care just because they’ve not spent it like my aunt and uncle. Oh the other hand, my uncles paid a lot more in tax than most.
Personally I think everything should be a level playing field, stamp duty, tax, care, inheritance tax. But I think that’s another debate.