I don’t think she realises anything actually. I think she’s become very good at convincing herself that what she does is okay and normal, or her whole world would come crashing down. It’s sad to see because I’m sure Holly is really lovely. Her habits are just awful though and she shouldn’t be giving out advice. I wish she could see that.
That whole thing with Jojo though is completely different to Holly.
Sure, but still tight buns damage hair roots. Her ED history and bad relationship with food further contribute to this phenomenon.
Holly wears her buns reaaally tight no way that can be good for her roots
Also wish she'd stop shilling function of beauty and invest in some decent hair care products. I've seen a few reviews recently talking about how function of beauty lead to more hair loss than usual. I'm surprised her sister uses it as she's really into her skincareExactly, or she could try writing down her feelings into a diary/journal if she doesn't feel ready to talk about it. She seems to enjoy bullet journalling, but only for productivity reasons. It can be really useful to track emotions/mental health as well.
it’s just so sad and empty- where do they even make their meals from????
So where do we think the main problem is? Was this a day someone was due to go shopping or do her parents just not eat that sort of stuff? Or are the girls expected to get their own food? It’s opened many questions
She's shown similar shots of her fridge over and over, and they all look this depressing. The women in the family eat vegan, and the top two fridge shelves are sparsely populaed with vegetables (shown later on in this vlog). I'm assuming they keep some vegetables out of the fridge and eat canned beans and rice/pasta/oats, and of course some frozen stuff. But there's what, two meat pasties and some yogurts in the fridge for the men who are not vegan?
It’s so strange how their house generally is some,toy, every time I see it in the background all I can think is that it’s the house of someone who’s about to move put and has removed most of their stuff already. That fridge is insane
My relationship with my parents improved vastly when I moved out. They are nice people, and listen to me if I need to talk about emotions (this was like 7 years ago btw), but being under their roof as an adult just made things tense and odd. As soon as I moved out it was nice to meet them for walks at the weekend, etc, rather than being in their space. What works for some adults with their parents doesn’t work for others, I really sense Holly will thrive a bit more once she permanently moves out. If she goes to do a masters or not, she should permanently move out now. I just hope she doesn’t go to uni for a year then move back in at home again afterwards, else the cycle starts again. In my view, she should go to uni, then secure a flat to rent once uni ends to avoid the necessity of coming home. When I was at home after uni, looking for a job I had no money and no choice but to come home to my parents, which caused me a good few months of depression because our relationship was sour at the time and I was stuck, financially. Holly doesn’t have the financial excuse if her tutoring fees are anything to go by.
