I haven't commented until now but I can't take her stupid "I'm a tiny Asian girl, I can do no harm!" rhetoric any bleeping longer. She perpetuates the stereotype of Asian women being feeble, submissive and unable to do anything for themselves outside of the house. I know SO MANY ASIAN WOMEN who are bomb ass filmmakers, artists, qualified tradespeople, business owners.. women who kick ass in extreme sports and lift bleeping heavy weights, women who make noise, women who challenge norms. ALL ASIAN. Of all varying sizes! So stfu with the whole "I'm a tiny asian girl" nonsense. This girl couldn't change a flat tire if her life depended on it - oh wait, she can't even drive. I'm sick to death of hearing her spout this line like it's somehow supposed to say anything about her, other than provide a physical description of what she looks like? Or is she so empty inside that she's in her mid-30s and still puts so much of her own value in what she looks like? My money's on the latter.
CAPABILITY IS SEXY but maybe Cheri didn't get the memo.
What makes me shake my head is that she's really drinking the kool-aid that's perpetuating her own self hate. Cheri will read this and know deep down that she doesn't like herself, she doesn't like being Asian, and she thinks ingratiating herself to the "white status quo" will make her accepted in society. The bottom line is that IT IS SAD. I honestly hope she finds herself, and I hope she genuinely learns to love herself beyond how the Internet has validated her. She needs to quit burning bridges and get over her intimacy issues that she clearly has with close friendships/girlfriends - the way she has pushed previous friends away when they challenge her reality is a clear sign of insecurity and/or old emotional trauma. I have no doubt she's got tit to work through, anyone with Asian parents will tell you that.. she's bleeping annoying, but now she's dabbling in rhetoric that is arguably quite harmful.
Say what you want, but she's legitimately a great artist. Her artwork is GOOD. She should have continued with that, IMO. Her creative side isn't lacking. It's just unfortunate that she's pouring steam into a broken machine now.