How you doin' bubba ?
Up and down tbh.
Hurts like hell because it was my dad who brought me up, not my mum, so we’ve always had that extra special bond.
It actually made me reflect on a few Meghan things...
When she first came into the public eye, she appeared to be a daddy’s girl (like me).
Photo’s were shown of how much she loved adored her father (like me).
Her father brought her up (like me).
She was thoroughly spoilt (NOT like me!).
And then the facade slipped...
When her father had a heart attack, she sent him a text and then never bothered again.
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When mine had a heart attack, several years ago, he was in hospital for 10 weeks.
Three times a week I took the 6 hour round trip to sit at his bedside for 2.
I had 2 young children at the time.
I did it, not because I felt obliged to do it but, because I wanted to do it.
My dad had always been there when I needed him and I wanted to be there when he needed me.
Sorry to make this about me but the only way I can get my point across properly is to compare.
Meghan being a “daddy’s girl” is fake. She never was - she used him until she didn’t need him anymore.
Thomas, I do believe, did adore her and I can’t even imagine the pain he must be going through to see his “little girl’s” true colours.
Putting aside what she is doing to the Royal Family, she should be utterly ashamed of what she has done to her own father - the man who brought her up and adored her. She used him and them cast him aside like a used tissue.
She disgusts me.
These past few weeks I’ve gone over all the stupid little things that I didn’t do for my dad and I’ve berated myself for them. Then I looked at the bigger picture and realised that I may not have been the perfect daughter 100% of the time, but I was the perfect daughter for him and he was the perfect dad for me.
I’m not proud of much in my life, but I am proud of that.
We were so lucky to have the relationship we did. He was my first love and I will miss him always.
@spangly I’m sorry to hear your news too. How are you doing?
And to leave this on a lighter note... Freda, thank you for asking - not many people have asked if I’m ok!
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