smellyfootballboots
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Hello and welcome to Terf VilleHi everyone. I’m new on here and have yet to catch up with the whole thread but I really felt like I needed a space to discuss my feelings on the what’s happening with gender in society at the moment as I feel like it’s hard to discuss my POV in person without being accused of being “transphobic.”
I guess to start I want to say I’m not transphobic in any way shape or form and I do genuinely believe gender dysphoria is a real issue for a small number of people and I support these peoples right to get help. I also would fight for the rights of anyone who felt they weren’t being treated equal. At the same time I think the gender discussion in society has taken a turn and is actually doing more harm than good for those who are genuinely trans.
I grew up in the late 90s / early 00s with a lot of tomboy friends and some feminine boys, some in their adult life turned out to be gay, some didn’t. I feel like today feminine boys and tomboys are instantly assumed to be trans or to have some sort of issue with their gender and it baffles me. I love seeing people express their identity in different ways through clothes, makeup etc. but feel like how people express themselves is being intertwined with their gender/sex and actually promoting traditional gender roles rather than going against them like they claim to.
I’m a woman (I refuse to use the term cis for myself, sorry not sorry) and I am so confused by people who say women are simply people who internally feel like women. I’m just like… can someone tell me what that feels like cause after 30 years living as a woman I’m not even sure I could explain it. A woman is what I am not who I am.
in a society that has become so accepting I find it odd how people can’t just express their identity in any way they please cause as I mentioned I feel the current narrative actually promotes traditional gender roles / traits rather than squash them I.e. biological men wearing dresses and claiming to be trans or non binary because dresses aren’t traditionally masculine. Wearing a dress and makeup is not what makes me a woman. I actually hate dresses!!
I have so many thoughts on this and the above might seem wishy washy and not thought out properly but I’ve just so many thoughts about it! But I am going to end with this… A good friend of mine (male) went to the doctor last year with some problems- no sex drive, weight gain, depressive episodes and overall feeling shit. He was miserable for a long time and I saw him suffer through it. After blood tests etc. he was diagnosed with a small tumor, which is not life threatening, on his pituitary gland resulting in his estrogen levels spiking and causing all his symptoms. Immediately he had to to go on meds to shrink the tumour and get his body back to “normal”. The doctordiscussed the potential side effects if he had have ignored his symptoms and had his estrogen levels continue to rise including increased risk of cancer, depression etc. This immediately made me think of biological men that are put on female hormones long term to fix their issues with their gender and I thought surely this isn’t good long term. And on the flip side is even worse for women considering testosterone is far more potent as a hormone. It’s scary that cross sex hormones are given to people indefinitely but not enough is actually discussed about the long term side effects. And they’re giving them to teens… it’s a scary time.
You are correct that cross sex hormones will eventually lead to a huge rise in cancers. Most men taking oestrogen are buying it on the internet, so they have no idea what they are taking.
A handy timeline for you (I am a good few years into being aware of what is going on, so I may sound harsh to you):
You cannot change your sex. No, amount of cosmetic surgery or taking cross-sex hormones does anything more than make you a hairy women with a deep voice or a eunuch with a bad shoes.
Trans rights are not human rights. They have more rights that the rest of us (try firing one!). What TRA's are demanding are privileges they don't deserve. These demands impose on women's rights and make women's spaces mixed sex, which is against the Equality Act 2010.
When the GRA (2004) was implemented to allow men (at that time it was only men who wanted to do this, these men were known as transsexuals) to lie on their birth certificates, passports, driving licences etc to effectively become women in law, no women's groups had a seat at the table, only LGB and TRA's - all men. The report stated that by allowing men access to women's single sex spaces would put women at risk of loss of privacy, dignity and increase the risk of assault, but it was accepted that the risk to women was appropriate to meet these male demands.
When on 2010, gender was added to the Equality Act, again, no women's groups were at the table for this consultation, but this essentially opened up self ID as we know it today, however there wasn't the gender shit show we have now so it remained under the radar. This addition of gender to the EA, allowed trans people to be able to self ID on their government documentation and be treated the same as their chosen gender. Self ID is already in place for everywhere but their birth certificates.
Just after the EA was brought in the NHS added it's Annex B, allowing any male saying they were female to be placed on women's wards. Women have been raped and assaulted and then lied to by the NHS and the police by being told that no men were on the ward, when there was. (This is well documented and has been discussed in the House of Lords).
In 2014 gay marriage was legalised and LGB people had exactly the same rights as everyone else (as it should be).
In 2015 political lobbying group Stonewall was paid large sums of money to add T to the LGB. Stonewall had done great work for the LGB community in the UK and across Europe and was already well placed to push the T agenda. From there on Gender Ideology was pushed in all government organisations, including education, the police, NHS, BBC, local government. Which explains the explosion of this generation of children saying they are trans and also the disappearance of anorexia in young girls.
The past 2 years has seen a massive rise in men saying they are TW. There is no such thing as a trans woman. Try not to use their language it tricks the mind, there are only trans identified men (TiM's). They require 'validation' from women for their adopted persona because they are autogynephiles (AGP). Basically, men who get turned on by the thought of themselves as women (euphoria) - Dylan Mulvaney, Eddie Izzard, Wil(Lia)m Thomas are AGP's. AGP is not an innocent fetish, it is because of the AGP's that women are no longer allowed to speak our truth and are being silenced, we must validate and be complicit with their sexual fetish.
The huge rise in trans identified people, especially under 18's and AGP's absolutely comes from the 2020/2021 lockdowns.
Common slurs to silence you will be:
Transphobia / trans phobic - everything is - even eye rolling
TERF - Trans exclusionary radical feminist - yawn
Right wing - you are automatically right wing if you don't agree with TRA's
Far right wing - when you have fully peaked and your terfness is showing like a belisha beacon
Dog whistle - When you speak facts - TRA's don't like facts
These are the most marginalised groups - No, no they are not, they have huge power and money behind them. There have been zero murders in the UK of trans people for being trans since 2008. Women are murdered at a rate of 3-4 a week. Children under 12 months are even more at risk. These absurd lies plied by Stonewall are taken from south American countries, not the UK, Europe or the US.
2023 - Women still do not have a seat at the table for women's rights with regards to consultations with the government, which tells you how women are regarded among the political class in the UK.
Women's rights are our human rights. We have never achieved equality.
Trans rights are male privileges. They have achieved so much in such a short amount of time because they are men. No other reason.
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