klarakluckbag
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I'm another who is glad to have found this topic covered here, there is literally nowhere else to discuss these issues, without being shouted down as some kind of bigot or "hater". I have to be honest, I didn't even realise the scale of the problem, I also wandered in here after seeing the weightlifting shocker, I thought that male athletes were already banned from women's Olympic events? Me and my husband were watching the coverage, and looking at each other, saying "Isn't that a bloke?"
I like to think that a trans woman, who has made a committed decision to live completely as a woman, prior to surgery, would be treated with dignity and respect by healthcare workers, colleagues and everyone else. I don't think that the majority of transwomen take this decision lightly, and it must be awful for those who genuinely believe that they have been born into the wrong body. And I honestly don't have a problem with a transwoman using the same toilet as me! I'm not qualified enough to state that it is always a mental health issue, I used to think that anyone who was prepared to go through the demands of hormone treatment, drastic surgery, and the ordeal of telling friends and family of their intentions, must be absolutely certain that they simply cannot deal with living a lie any longer. But suddenly, the whole trans experience seems to have been taken over by militant men, who are demanding that women's "rights*", should be bestowed on them, just because they wear a dress and lipstick on a Friday night.
(* Women's "rights". Like breastfeeding in public places, single sex hospital wards and toilets, safe spaces for abused women, the end of victim-blaming in assault or rape trials. You know, issues that actually affect only women)
The insidious hating on lesbians and gay men needs to stop. Gay people have fought long and hard for their freedoms in this country, and I think that most of us are quite gladdened to see same-sex couples holding hands in the street. My best friend's son has just come out (to the surprise of absolutely no-one!), my son's girlfriend works in a gay bar, they spend their whole weekends with a crowd of gay and straight people, it's just a normal part of everyone's life. The old homophobia is dwindling away, as gay people are seen and heard everywhere, from soap operas to weather forecasters, to radio DJ's to politicians. Now we're being told that lesbians who don't want to sleep with men, are "bigots"? Or gay men, who are horrified by the thought of having sex with someone who has a vagina, are "transphobic"? Surely we're going backwards?
These aggressive transvestites (which is what they are. No amount of whinging about "period pains" and access to HRT makes them female, any more than me wearing trousers and not waxing my moustache means I'm a man ffs) need to be put back in their box, and sharpish. No-one cares if Colin down the road, wants to wear a dress and make-up and call himself Cassandra at weekends. But when he starts demanding to use the female changing-rooms in Next, and attending the women-only swimmimg sessions at the local pool, we're gonna have a problem. Colin can just go fuck himself.
I like to think that a trans woman, who has made a committed decision to live completely as a woman, prior to surgery, would be treated with dignity and respect by healthcare workers, colleagues and everyone else. I don't think that the majority of transwomen take this decision lightly, and it must be awful for those who genuinely believe that they have been born into the wrong body. And I honestly don't have a problem with a transwoman using the same toilet as me! I'm not qualified enough to state that it is always a mental health issue, I used to think that anyone who was prepared to go through the demands of hormone treatment, drastic surgery, and the ordeal of telling friends and family of their intentions, must be absolutely certain that they simply cannot deal with living a lie any longer. But suddenly, the whole trans experience seems to have been taken over by militant men, who are demanding that women's "rights*", should be bestowed on them, just because they wear a dress and lipstick on a Friday night.
(* Women's "rights". Like breastfeeding in public places, single sex hospital wards and toilets, safe spaces for abused women, the end of victim-blaming in assault or rape trials. You know, issues that actually affect only women)
The insidious hating on lesbians and gay men needs to stop. Gay people have fought long and hard for their freedoms in this country, and I think that most of us are quite gladdened to see same-sex couples holding hands in the street. My best friend's son has just come out (to the surprise of absolutely no-one!), my son's girlfriend works in a gay bar, they spend their whole weekends with a crowd of gay and straight people, it's just a normal part of everyone's life. The old homophobia is dwindling away, as gay people are seen and heard everywhere, from soap operas to weather forecasters, to radio DJ's to politicians. Now we're being told that lesbians who don't want to sleep with men, are "bigots"? Or gay men, who are horrified by the thought of having sex with someone who has a vagina, are "transphobic"? Surely we're going backwards?
These aggressive transvestites (which is what they are. No amount of whinging about "period pains" and access to HRT makes them female, any more than me wearing trousers and not waxing my moustache means I'm a man ffs) need to be put back in their box, and sharpish. No-one cares if Colin down the road, wants to wear a dress and make-up and call himself Cassandra at weekends. But when he starts demanding to use the female changing-rooms in Next, and attending the women-only swimmimg sessions at the local pool, we're gonna have a problem. Colin can just go fuck himself.