Literally can’t keep up with these threads now at all but yesterday I was out with my husband and toddler and in a cafe heard a man saying to his female companion saying something like “Have you seen the stuff about trans rights?” so my ears pricked up. I couldn’t hear her responses but he said he’d been reading a Guardian article about everything that had happened since the FWS judgement in April and I was thinking “Oooooh he knows about FWS, maybe he’s sensible?”
Quickly disillusioned when he said “It’s not a scientific question of what a woman is, but a social one” and then he said about them being in women’s toilets and basically said something like “My understanding is the women’s toilets are just cubicles with sinks so they’re private and men wouldn’t see anything”.
Had to leave the cafe before I started fighting him. I wanted to say “It’s not just women’s toilets though, it’s women’s prisons that are housing male criminals including rapists, women’s single sex services like grape crisis centres. And also you’re a man lol so maybe sit this one out?”
My husband could see how pissed off I was getting so let me rant to him as soon as we were out the cafe!