Gemken

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Lol not everyone wants to fall pregnant immediately after getting married, seems a bit of a reach. If I’m picking up whats shes saying it seems more like she was reading here and the hate likely brought her down and made her not want to come online, she definitely seems like shes hurting seems unfair to jump to these hypothetical but very serious conclusions based off her grwm
I thought we were all free to give our own opinion here. Not slate others for theirs.
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I got the vibe she has had a miscarriage, anyone else? Would also explain why she appears to not be spending much time with sarah since going back, when that happens sometimes you dont want to be around pregnant people to protect your mental health.
I just hate when people come onto stories and allude to something that has happened but says they arent going to talk about it, why bring it up at all. They are addicted to attention and cant help themselves.
I thought that too.
 
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I got the impression she feels a bit lost now that the wedding is over. She also tossed a lot of her clothes after losing weight for the wedding, and now she can’t fit into what she has left. I can relate—it's really demotivating when your goal has come and gone.
 
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I got the vibe she has had a miscarriage, anyone else? Would also explain why she appears to not be spending much time with sarah since going back, when that happens sometimes you dont want to be around pregnant people to protect your mental health.
I just hate when people come onto stories and allude to something that has happened but says they arent going to talk about it, why bring it up at all. They are addicted to attention and cant help themselves.
She's planted that for engagement and she's got contract obligations which is why she had to come on and show that product.

I don't think shes had a miscarriage. She's been holidaying and drink for the last 3 months lol

She's probably wondering what her purpose in life is now that the wedding is over. She's not working and is a married couple now in a house sharing situation. It seems like her friend circle all have something going for them.

It's cringey watching her stories now, the effort her and Sinead put into that video when they were 'reunited' after being on holiday together is hilarious.
 
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I think she’s struggling to conceive and struggling her ‘best friend ‘ Sarah beat her to it first
 
Has she not recently posted about contraception though? I can’t remember what she said she’s on but the bar, coil something like that? I’m almost sure she said she was staying on it over the wedding etc. anyway I don’t think it’s pregnancy related, I feel like if it was that she would actually keep it private and not allude to something online. I reckon it’s the come down off the wedding, back to reality, money running dry, clothes not fitting, wondering how she’s going to go to the gym when she potentially has to start a ‘real job’ 😂
 
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Yeah they live in a share apartment still. She’s too lazy to work a day job, can’t see her rushing to have a baby.
 
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Reality slaps when you make getting married your ENTIRE personality trait and have zero other outlets to channel your energy into afterwards, such as a job. It’s just a huge comedown off a lifetime event that she massively overhyped. I sound harsh but it’s a case of you made your bed, now lie in it. Go and develop yourself some redeeming qualities Gem 💅
 
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I was on one of their pages earlier looking at old stories, and see this. It give flashbacks to the stories and that Insta group where they were all drunk in these outfits and less, showing off nipples and more. Like, this is probably more than what some would be shelling on Onlyf*ns
 

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I see it is Sarah, one of Gemma’s bridesmaids and previous besties, birthday today. No mention of it yet from Gemma, such as an Instagram story etc. But she has managed a few stories about some mental health service, no doubt which she is being paid to promote.
It was mentioned previously, but looks like they’ve had some kind of falling out. Possibly something to do with jealousy over Sarah being pregnant. Hopefully it isn’t to do with a miscarriage as some suggested.
 
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I see it is Sarah, one of Gemma’s bridesmaids and previous besties, birthday today. No mention of it yet from Gemma, such as an Instagram story etc. But she has managed a few stories about some mental health service, no doubt which she is being paid to promote.
It was mentioned previously, but looks like they’ve had some kind of falling out. Possibly something to do with jealousy over Sarah being pregnant. Hopefully it isn’t to do with a miscarriage as some suggested.
She just posted a video
 
Wedding come down in full swing by sounds of it. She could do with proper routine and purpose each day by sounds of it.
 
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What does she do with no job like seriously! So much more interesting doing traffic control
 
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She has spent the past year or more living in a complete bubble. She was the centre of attention, everything was about her and her wedding, numerous hen parties etc. Then she was on honeymoon/holiday for an eternity. Now she is back,she doesn't have a job, she has said she has gained weight, she has absolutely no structure or routine to her day and she is no longer the centre of attention. Gemma my advice would be,go and get yourself an actual job you know like the rest of us have to do, then you'll have less time to sit and feel sorry for yourself.
 
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Anyone who would be inclined to suffer mental health issues should know that structure and routine are so key. Having no job and spending four months lounging around after getting married is not it!!
 
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I was on one of their pages earlier looking at old stories, and see this. It give flashbacks to the stories and that Insta group where they were all drunk in these outfits and less, showing off nipples and more. Like, this is probably more than what some would be shelling on Onlyf*ns
She looks like she has a d**k
 

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