Or maybe just maybe... she had an appointment from the last time she was there
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Tying to get a therapist, any therapist, a hospital bed, or even an ambulance for mental health issues, even an attempted suicide, is non existent at the weekends, and that was before Covid. Both in public and private system.
How do I know? Because I'd have given my kidneys to get help for a loved one, several times, over the last two years.
If Grace is in the low, dark, deep place she says she is, she wouldn't, or couldn't get to her phone, let alone go speaking on a story.
Grace is special though she has a huge following on the gram so maybe they open for her
Yeah even her talking about it upsets me. I know that sounds a bit strange but it's too close to home for me.
If anyone in Grace's circle are reading this please do the right thing and get her off the internet.
Ye aren't helping her. All this pandering to her is not helping.
She needs to get off the internet for at least two weeks straight and get her head together. Get back to basics. Put " work " aside and get her home life on track.
Start a routine. Get up at 7am. Clean the house put a wash on. Get the children up and dressed. Breakfast. Maybe potter around the back garden or watch a bit of tv. Lunch. Head out for the afternoon. Home , dinner, bath time , bed.
Repeat.
She just genuinely doesn't seem to have the basics of life figured out yet. This is what she needs to establish first and foremost.
She is the grown up. She is the mammy. She needs to be the best version of herself for them children.
She is infuriating to watch.
Ye aren't helping her. All this pandering to her is not helping.
She needs to get off the internet for at least two weeks straight and get her head together. Get back to basics. Put " work " aside and get her home life on track.
Start a routine. Get up at 7am. Clean the house put a wash on. Get the children up and dressed. Breakfast. Maybe potter around the back garden or watch a bit of tv. Lunch. Head out for the afternoon. Home , dinner, bath time , bed.
Repeat.
She just genuinely doesn't seem to have the basics of life figured out yet. This is what she needs to establish first and foremost.
She is the grown up. She is the mammy. She needs to be the best version of herself for them children.
She is infuriating to watch.
Same back to you...it’s tough but we do it all out of love and grief, two sides of the same coin. Exactly, that’s what I do..minute to minute, hour to hour. So much love to youfrom one bereaved mama to another you are amazing. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other!!
Did she actually do that?? That is a new low, even for her. Is she looking for a sponsorship deal?? For them to share her stories and for her to gain followers as a “guru”? What’s the point in tagging darkness into light, what’s the purpose of that other than for her own gain. I am shocked at that. Not sure why cause it’s a long list at this stage but that is particularly unsettling.
Or look at accounts of people battling actual mental health illnesses
Cancer & mental health illnesses... Both deadly diseases
Probably just copied and pasted from and old story. If so..... she has some neck.
All the a*** licking comments... are people really that silly.
I've bitched about Grace enough trust me but at this stage it's like she can't do right for doing wrong. Obviously her content is hitting the wrong note with some people but it does look like she enjoys making it. I mean it's not my cup of tea but she's not getting my dollar so I don't particularly care what kinda content she shells out. I get the annoyance over the mental health thing because it absolutely comes across like she pushes that out there every time she's called out but other than that I couldn't care less what she does. If her family want to help her with her house and her kids etc or she leaves her house in a state or she sits on her ass all day then that's upto them. That really doesn't affect me one way or another.
I think her family don't help her in the ways we are suggesting because they know that Grace's version of her "lowest" point is not at all in line with what those suffering a true mental health crisis would consider "low". It is insulting to those with truly severe anxiety disorder and depression who are so desperate to be well.
I’m confused. Did she bring H to her appointment? Surely Kips could have the kids while she went if she needs it, it would be a massive distraction and a waste having a toddler there. And as for her spiel about being at her worst the last week...was this before or after all her happiness and joy in the field, her booh picnic, her few days away in nature? She’s developed a pattern now that when something she “created” after all the pulling and planning goes to tit for one of her half arsed reasons she has an episode and out comes the MH card...if anything, her opening up the way she has doesn’t help anyone, it makes people with MH issues pissed off that she’s just lazing around and acting ridiculous and she’s making a joke of people with real problems who struggle every day but get up off their a and refuse to let it overcome them. Send her over to me and I’ll give her a dose of reality, bet she’d tit herself!
Some posted saying they knew Chris’s mother and that she stopped minding one of kids because they kept asking her to do it. I’d imagine Chris family or mortified by her behaviour. He’s lost his job and she is going on about her mental health all the time, the poor guy. Cop the duck on grace. Imagine him going for job interviews and people recognising him as her partner.
Typical Grace has a break away last week didn’t have to worry about her kids for what 4 days comes back and is riddled with anxiety,, Grace your bored with your life being a stay at home Mammy doing extremely little is draining the life out of you. You can bull yourself all you want about creating content you do very little, I work full time I’ve 4 kids my house is clean my washing is up to date, you wallow around in a self obsessed bubble, these bleeping influencers infuriate me with their self indulgence imagine constantly talking about yourself and your feelings to thousands of strangers like your the most interesting and important person ever.
Ok, gonna play 'devil's advocate' here & say that none of us know what's truly going on with Grace. MH illness hits us all in different ways. We all react and handle it in a myriad ways. Maybe she is having the worst week ever; despite presenting a completely different story on IG. Who the hell knows.??
However I do believe she is using MH and sharing about it to stay 'relevant' and to increase viewing/content. And THAT for me is f**king despicable.
I couldn't give two shites if she lounges in gross loungewear all day & doesn't clean the house or parent her kids as much as she should. Her family are enabling that lifestyle, so that's their bad/idiocy. And she has to live with that guilt.
I hate that she is manipulating her mental health challenges to garner reactions & viewings which in turn present decent figures for her to show to PR agencies she desperately needs the work from. Her current 'angz-y-ah-hee' is possibly due to the difficult financial situation they have found themselves in - he's out of work & it's clear that work is drying up for her. But, Jesus, if that's the case then go look for actual real work and quit trying to shill rit from every bloody brand out there.
If we all stop watching her stories & talking about her here she will become irrelevant and disappear in to the ether.
In the meantime the more oxygen we give her the more traffic we send her way. (For the record, I haven't followed her since the SC days, Unfollowed her when she shared her first pregnancy/birth online)
Christ, that was a longer rant than I had intended.
However I do believe she is using MH and sharing about it to stay 'relevant' and to increase viewing/content. And THAT for me is f**king despicable.
I couldn't give two shites if she lounges in gross loungewear all day & doesn't clean the house or parent her kids as much as she should. Her family are enabling that lifestyle, so that's their bad/idiocy. And she has to live with that guilt.
I hate that she is manipulating her mental health challenges to garner reactions & viewings which in turn present decent figures for her to show to PR agencies she desperately needs the work from. Her current 'angz-y-ah-hee' is possibly due to the difficult financial situation they have found themselves in - he's out of work & it's clear that work is drying up for her. But, Jesus, if that's the case then go look for actual real work and quit trying to shill rit from every bloody brand out there.
If we all stop watching her stories & talking about her here she will become irrelevant and disappear in to the ether.
In the meantime the more oxygen we give her the more traffic we send her way. (For the record, I haven't followed her since the SC days, Unfollowed her when she shared her first pregnancy/birth online)
Christ, that was a longer rant than I had intended.
She is posting that she at the lowest point of her life one minute and they out skipping around a field of weeds the next with Dan and Aoife. It makes no sense.
I actually think this is quite damaging to someone with mental health issues.
They see this and wonder what is wrong with them that they can't just pick themselves up and go out and have fun.
It is damaging behaviour.
If what she does doesn't effect you one way or the other then I don't really understand the point of your post tbh.
I unfollowed her as well last night. I’ve followed her since Sienna was born but we’re in our 30’s and it’s time to grow up. I can’t listen to her anymore. I’ve been struggling so bad with my own physical and mental health that she’s triggering me. I would never ever use it as an excuse, and that’s all she does.
She really needs to take a break from social media before she loses everything or gives someone bad advice and something happens. Her kids don’t need new Penneys clothes, they need their mother without a phone inbetween them.
I really feel for Chris having to put up with that, I’d say he’s under so much stress as it is, but she is a bloody vacuum of happiness at this point.
She really needs to take a break from social media before she loses everything or gives someone bad advice and something happens. Her kids don’t need new Penneys clothes, they need their mother without a phone inbetween them.
I really feel for Chris having to put up with that, I’d say he’s under so much stress as it is, but she is a bloody vacuum of happiness at this point.
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