I don't know why the hate on the cheese? As I've mentioned before I'm the same size as grace - and I'm currently eating better , but I'm eating a lot! And I have lost 12 pounds in 3 weeks. 7 pounds the first week 3 the second week and 2 pounds this morning which is the third week. I don't eat salads or I'm not doing crazy exercise. To get the size me and grace both are, we are eating a lot of the wrong food... I haven't changed the amount I'm eating, I've just changed what I'm eating. If the scales aren't changing she is lying about healthy eating etc!!! Because at our heavy weight a slight change and you could lose a pound or 2 a week!! If she is not lying, she needs to get her thyroid checked!