Her level of self absorption and selfishness just baffles me, especially considering she is an adult and mam of two young kids. I have both depression and anxiety, I am on medication and also under a professional team. However, I don't use my mental health as an 'excuse' for everything. I also am suffering with renal failure, so I've been strictly isolating, as in I don't even see my mam. I see my husband and medical team. That's it. Yes there are days where I'd only love to go see my mam, or even just go to the local town for a walk but I respect the restrictions. She just has no idea of what real life is like for other people. Nor does she care.