Emirati men

[mehere]

omg tell us! did you go on your date? how was it? Give us all the deets if you can of course!

Aww thankyou for asking I lurk on the arab influencers thread and usually ‘like’ a lot of your posts cherry!

I’ve just returned home from a second date with him but I won’t take it any further I’m afraid. So he is a Emirati and Saudi mix, based in the UAE but is studying for his PhD in London. He wasn’t in any way effeminate like I was worried about but was a lot shorter than his profile stated. He was very handsome from the neck up! I’m only 5’1 and he was about a head taller than me eek! Although he ticked a lot of my boxes and was so lovely, I didn’t feel that spark towards him so will have to text him and ‘dump’ him. Ah girls my search for a husband continues 🥲

 

[alwaysdreaming]

Emirati men do not wait when they want to marry, they are proud like that.

I think he is playing romance with you.

There is some truth to what you are saying. You have made your point categoric a few times. I don’t think you need to constantly repeat yourself.
We don’t know the full story from either party. I think your going a little overboard with your criticism. Not all men are bad. People have their reasons. Life is not that simple.

 

[Renata]

The thing is they have money and travel a lot, you would think that would open their mind up.

mum just shocked by the extreme views they have and they think they have a right to see with different women.

I hear there is a lot of divorces - led by the women? The women also are in crisis (less so) and want to travel and are very materialistic. It seems they dump the kids are travel - which the sex driven husbands don’t like. Awful lot.

 

[wafflesnwings]

What do you ladies think of Iraqi men?

I'm super late to this thread and discussion - which I've read with a mix of fascination and horror at some of your stories. I have dated an Iraqi man - thankfully it was very very brief!! I can only speak about my experience, which I will share, however I am aware that every community has their fair share of idiots and those with kind-hearted and emotionally stable people. This man was older than me (10 years), was a musician and he seemed nice at first - the usual traits one would expect in the 'honeymoon' phase of dating. Eventually his grain of nature showed and it had me running for the hills (love the GIF in response to this by the way). He would start talking about other women he had dated or slept with - particularly if they were Russian, Brazilian, Moroccan or eastern European. At first, I didn't really think too much about it - everyone has a past and it was before I met him. But he kept going on about it in graphic detail (hoping to get a reaction out of me), which made me feel uncomfortable (especially when he talked about the ones who turned him down in a very nasty and abusive manner). He made my heritage a fetish (FWIW I'm Afghan) and he was so desperate to be close to me, that there were times when it would honestly feel like he was trying to crawl under my skin and curl up inside of me - you know when someone forces themselves into your life and they speed up dating/relationship-stuff to get there? When I told him to go slow, he become spiteful and controlling, saying emotionally manipulative things to me. He was also extremely shouty and aggressive if I didn't agree with him on something or do what he wanted. The 'I love you' was dropped pretty soon - I know narc traits from a mile off and I quickly realised that he was love bombing me. One moment: all cuddles, love-like mannerisms and the next it was like a volcano had gone off. I'd had enough: he used to send me tirades over voice notes. One day he sent me one like that. I listened to it. Blocked him everywhere. Never looked back. It was the best thing I have ever done

 

[Shantizer]

Smart girl?? ..If she was smart she wouldn't have tried to pretend she was with hamdan because that is sure the fastest way to get yourself exposed badly and especially hurt your chances of a decent life and career path that she so desperately wants now... The fact that she had to lie and more than once tried to pass off as more lavished than she actually is tells me her life isn't as fantastic as y'all and her try to portray... She's the literal definition of fake it till you make it so other than the fact that she's with an actual sheikh and has a little more than a regular escort she's not that different from the likes of ninamood... Does she have everything she wanted?? That's very debatable she wanted to be sheikh hamdan's girlfriend or atleast pass of as that and most of it was to amplify her relevance and networth because she actually doesn't have much and wished she did that's why she wanted to pass of as such so I'd say no she doesn't have everything she wanted and it's pretty obvious but still debatable...

The car her sister and mom own are rented too... And to be fair nina drives luxury cars too as 90% of escorts in Dubai do...Uncle is being extremely generous with her ofcourse and tolerating especially if he let her shenanigans slide and still funded her "lifestyle" but let's be real a degree earned in Dubai can be taken away in an instant by an influential sheikh like saeed unless he has mercy on her... These people will strip you down to your dignity in the end!! Angelika hasn't earned or achieved anything substantial she's bought and lied her way to everything down to her fake Instagram followers.. Without seeds money and influence she'll be flat out done! Even if she hops to another old man it still won't be the same...

And we're not gonna pretend as if she doesn't have accounts promoting herself in forums helping the narrative... The narrative of her and hamdan for one was perpetuated by one of her own if not her it was extremely detailed and suspicious and looking around they haven't stopped .... It's not smart just cliche' atp...

 

[Cherrymama]

What I can tell you from my personal experience:
Khaleejis are torn between wanting to be part of a western culture and maintaining their families standards. Hence why they can act like they don’t know you publicly yet you are extremely close (not necessarily dating but even as friendships).
e.g 2 great friends of mine (Emirati &qatari) who refuse to follow me on Instagram out of fear their relative see but we’re always chatting and seeing each other’s when they come to UK.
My advice would be to deal with caution, be ready to get heartbroken Bc it’s how it ends most of the time and at the end the day he can be madly inlove w you but will still marry his cousin.

This is 100% the case when it comes to Khaleeji men, a lot of them will mess around with girls that are not considered traditional (women who cover, come from traditional tribal families, have islamic values) and promise them marriage and all that yet will never actually get married to them. If a khaleeji guy promises you love and marriage but has an intimate relationship with you right away then don’t bother. These guys have reputations and egos to maintain. They would never marry a women who has slept around with other guys, talks about astrology and dating. I know for a fact they want pure girls who will pass on Arab and Islamic values onto their children. It’s the harsh truth and reality for girls like us that don’t come from the Arab world.

I don’t want to be near anyone who is embarrassed/scared to be seen with me because he cannot stand up to his family.

that’s not manly or appealing.

awful culture.

There’s a difference between being embarrassed to be seen with her and not wanting her to be seen by other men. A man’s jealousy for his wife is embedded into Islam and Arab culture.

 

[Janechrist]

I don't know what I believe anymore, nor do I disbelieve in anything. However, many things do not add up to the story. Guys, does anyone here know if there's a way to make a private topic? Like, where only authorized members can enter? I wanted to test something like this here, we will need to make another open topic because this one is already full, but it may be that in the closed topic people spill new teas. Some people are afraid of spilling spicy tea on open topic.

 

[JeenaJune]

No private threads please. It doesn't add credibility to stories posted on them and people are spamming OG threads with requests to be added.I've seen it on other forums too many times.

 

[YetAnotherObsessionx]

I don't know how much I can say on this site actually?
I don't wanna get banned or something..
Because the tea is crazy!
And if there are some FAN GIRLS madly in love with their sheikhs...
They will cut my head off

You can say it, the mods will delete if it's too crazy! Just don't give away anything that might reveal who you are in real life. We're all ready for a nice hot cuppa!

 

[achan715]

M8 is at dubai muscle show where Ana Cozar is participating
He always likes her photos

His taste in girls is really horrible, I hope he can somehow improve it for the better.

 

[Nare7]

She seems to have asked this question to draw eyes to herself, I don't know why. She could be dating any other prince too, not just the Gulf. But if she's actually dating a Sheikh, I'd say she's dating a Sheikh from one of the Lower Emirates.

When you see a girl/woman, living a luxury lifestyle, who often travels to Dubai, and doesn't have any real job, she is 100% an escort!
And why do you think all the escorts, are sleeping with sheikhs? Most of them sleep, with indian, pakistani, and other foreign business men, but PRETEND they are with some sheikh, because it's more "prestigious"!

@tata.al555
@vikagrram
@ninamood
ESCORTS!!! ALL OF THEM!
Ugly as fuck,.,., ALL OF THEM!

 

[Susuthemumu]

hi ladies ! i feel i might be late to this thread but i’m in need of advice and don’t really feel comfortable sharing this with my close friends and family yet.
i’ve lived in dubai for a very long time and am originally pakistani, about a year ago i met a guy and he’s emirati. we got together pretty soon after that and around 9months into the relationship he asked me to meet him mother. i was nervous and all but i’ve grown up around emirati families and i honestly like to think i’m good with moms so i was in a way excited to meet her.

met her and she was so sweet, asked me about my life, education, family basically everything, thought it was going great. towards the end she asks me have my parents found any marriage prospects for me who are pakistani, i knew what was going to happen so i simply said no. she turns around and says it’s better if i look within my own culture and stop talking to her son because it won’t be accepted by her or his father.

i’m usually able to stand up for myself, have never been shy about speaking up but i literally froze, i knew if i spoke i’d start crying so i didn’t say anything. we said our goodbyes and i went and cried for a solid few hours in my car.

i spoke to my partner after and said i don’t think you and me could work and if there’s no possibility of us getting married we shouldn’t see each other anymore. he argued said im being stupid and what not, i blocked him but he managed to contact through mutual friends, came to my house etc. he spoke to me and said he’d be willing to fight for us to get married, it’s been abt three months since all this happened and we are still together.

however, he’s stopped speaking to his mother and it’s obviously because of me. i feel bad abt it but i can’t really force him to speak to her. however abt a week ago she texted me to meet, i told him and he said ok yea that’s good maybe she’s extending an olive branch. i went to see her at lunch, took a gift n all, when i get there she offers me money if i leave her son. so i left the second she did, i didn’t respond, i didn’t say bye, i picked up my bag and left. i told him and blocked him, refused to see him.

it’s been about two weeks since this has happened, he’s still trying to contact me and his mom has also called and sent flowers and what not. i haven’t told my parents because i know they’d be so so angry at the whole situation and frankly it’s embarrassing.

im just sort of stuck rn i don’t know exactly what i should do, i do really really love the guy and we both could see our future together and i guess because he did fight for me in his house he is serious abt being with me but at the same time i’m not sure if this could really like work in the long term because i mean i’ve heard good and bad stories from non emirati girls being married into emirati families. i’m just extremely confused and just need some guidance on where i should focus my energy in this situation.

my parents are both pakistani but came from different backgrounds and went through a similar situation but did get married and are extremely happy alhamdillulah. me and the guy grew up in the same circles, our families know of each other vaguely, we both are in the same financial category, both live in the same area. it’s like if i was emirati i wouldn’t have even had to wait a second to be with him and honestly honestly it’s so so hurtful that i’m being deemed not good enough because of my background. im proud of where i’m from, im proud of my culture and i hate the fact that for the last few months of my life it’s as if everyone is against that.

sorry for how long this is also i just really can’t believe this is happening

Hi 7abbibti!

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I went through almost the exact same thing with my husband, except vice versa. My husband is Saudi and I am Iranian but were both born and raised in the U.S. We met when I was 21 (am 29 now). Anyways what can I say, his parents loved me, but my parents hated the fact that he was an Arab and Saudi especially. My mom and brother were the worst to deal with. My dad was actually nicer. Lots of emotional trauma, cut off my brother (still don’t talk to him), etc. anyways one day me and my husband sat down, and said if we are really going to do this, commit to each other, get married, and start a family then we have to be solid together. Meaning we understood that certain things were going to happen, that will hurt certain family relationships, and we had to except that if we were going to be together for the long haul. It does get easier over time. It really does. If you guys love each other, and he seriously wants to marry you, then don’t cut him off. Relationships will build slowly with his mother if she sees that you both are serious. Or she might not. But that is OKAY. Don’t feel guilty because this life is too short. If you believe that he is compatible with you in every way and you guys are meant to be together, then have a serious conversation with him and be like “are you truly ready to do this.” One thing I was always worried about, was am I going to resent him for certain broken relationships with my family, now looking back years later, I do not. I do not resent him bc I love him. If you feel like he is going to resent you for his broken relationship with his mother, he won’t, If he is serious and if he truly loves you. I’m not going to sugarcoat it for you, it’s not going to be easy, especially in these early stages, certain days you will cry but you will have a great love that transcends all the above. And also if you have one set of parents that really like a partner, that helps so much. The khaleeji culture was a shock to me especially since I wasn’t raised in A khaleeji country, but since you both were, and already know the society and culture well, then fitting in culturally is not a problem for you at all.
I don’t know you but I am here for you xoxoxo

 

[Nare7]

sorry I can't say more, but he did it. This had caused a huge conflict between him and shaikha. So after shaikha gave birth to the twins they were childless for several years

Girllll you can't throw, something like that, and then say sorry i can't say more! Tell me from where you have that info. Spill the tea.
We won't get out and search for Nasser's "lover".

 

[justinatom33]

Guys, I have a large number of followers on Instagram and once I got a proposal to be cover of L’officiel arabia… i don’t remember how much exactly but I think around 4000 euro… all girls buy magazine covers, or articles inside the magazine or website.
Many escorts buy as well so their rate can rise

 

[ninaaaaa]

I am coming out of something with an omani now we ended months ago but I know he still thinks of me and posts cryptic things and tbh I do too.. it sucks because there's no progress in us making up but I can't see myself with another Omani now. sucks even more because I always loved this country and agree omanis are not like the rest of gcc most of them are good guys but this guy is somewhat well known and it will be hard for me to go from him to another I think...


so second option please?



im pretty set on marrying a khaleegi man at this point (very toxic of me, I know) - I do like a lot of things about the culture and feel like its a good match -- I actually prefer traditional gender role relationships but I just need to find one that will respect me before and after marriage.

Hmmm hb Kuwaiti men then, they seem better than Saudis and Emiratis. I would say Bahrainis but they are only good if you like the whole laid back culture. If you want a balance between tradition and “modernism” go for a Kuwaiti, I’ve never heard anyone complain especially if you go for a man who is private, not social media driven and believes in tradition. They also have a stable country and your children would get the most benefits imo lool

 

[Janechrist]

lately, i see hamdan posting a lot of pictures of his twins on ig.. does he want to show he is a good father??

Perhaps. It may be that yes and may be that no. I do not doubt that Hamdan is a good father to his twins (maybe he is also for the other children, if they have any interaction, but there is all the advertising thing, everyone knows that the Hamdan family and Hamdan Hope attention on the Internet of all the ways of can; pretending to be a perfect and united family; pretending they are humble, etc. Hamdan can be a good father to his children, but he uses them for advertising, is clear. I can not say if Hamdan is a good father or not, for I do not live with him, but he apparently is a better father for his twins of what his father went to him and his brothers.

Hello, I'm new member here. @Cupcaake90 I think he's seeking for attention. By the way, do you guys still think that the mother of twins is Shaikha Saeed since Khaleejtimes already stated in this article? https://www.khaleejtimes.com/uae/du...irst-birthday-shares-adorable-throwback-photo

Shaikha is not the mother of the twins, is clear.

It's impossible to reach him, is there really no other way? lol

Woman, for God's sake. Give up on Mansoor or any other Arab Sheikh on earth, it's a total waste of time, believe me. Mansoor is the biggest Casanova among his brothers, and everyone knows it. That must be less than 12cm and must have at least one Syphilis. Look for another man, any other. It must be better this way.

 

[alwaysdreaming]

From my experience I would say Kuwaitis seem open minded and lovely in the beginning but they like to play games. Once you open their layers they are very judgmental, critical and slightly backwards in their thought process. Oh & I forgot to mention what put me off Kuwaitis is they also cheat on their wives. ( From what I’ve seen). Out of all Gulf Arabs who have treated me with respect from my own personal experience is Qataris. Very private Qataris.
If you want open minded Lebanese, Syrian & Palestinian.
Sometimes it’s not the culture it’s the man himself. You have to spend enough time with them and if you see red flags. Don’t ignore.

 

[Renata]

Yeah Moroccans tend to be over sexualized, kind of what they do to Latinas and other groups of “exotic” women. It’s very unfortunate because I’m sure they do not want to be seen like that. And yea some men go for younger, poorer women to feel power over them. Why do you think some Americans go to the Philippines for example to get with younger more vulnerable women? Anyways was your guy a businessman or something how did he have that many properties abroad?

The educated one had family money and had various businesses including a house in Mayfair. He kept telling me how he dated some famous model (cannot recall which one - it wasn’t an obvious one). He also said he would never trust a woman. His longest sugar baby destroyed his belongings after he couldn’t make a trip with her due to work. It was all extreme stuff.

 

[Shantizer]

So the rumors of Nasser cheating on Shaikha with two girls someone else brought up in the thread could be real? Good to know. Thanks for the tea, Karmen! We were in need of an extra warm up before starting another topic!! I don't doubt that Shaikha went crazy after Nasser had a daughter out of wedlock, she's actually very much in love with Nasser (and very full of herself too). So does that mean she forgave him about 5 years ago¿?

I can't believe this nigga is screwing a girl the same age as one of his younger sisters, my God!! At least that's better than the sibling incest rumors between him and Sheikha Shaikha.



What exactly?

Not discrediting her or anything but I'm just a little skeptical.. For one, nobody (in the public that is) knew about the twins until hamdan announced it but after he did, people emerged from nowhere and had alot to say about the mom and the kids it's a little strange and convenient...

And saying they don't want people to know hamdan has two wives?? His dad had six wives and if they cared Soo much about this modern prince image, the cousin marriage should've never even happened then.. The 2nd wife was a fan?? Mmmh

Anyways she did say the second wife was due this year or early next year Iet's just wait and see.

 

[Nare7]

I don't think he has 2 wives, these are just rumours invented by some unknown fans on social media. His only wife is Shaikha Saeed at the moment and she's probably the mother of twins too as it states by khaleejtimes' article, I just don't buy those 3rd party sources whatsoever and we'll see soon about it when it does. Only time will tell.

The second wife, was confirmed, by most of the arab sites. And no one, from the Al Maktoum family, congratulated Shaikha, on giving birth.Sheikh Hamdan even deletes, her comments, under his instagram photos.