He did have a terrible accident, they didn’t drown him intentionally. In the UK can’t fathom taking our eyes off our children for two seconds near a pool because they aren’t common to us. Nobody has them in their back gardens. However in the US they’re really common, coupled with the attitude of it won’t happen to us (I think this is a given with how young she also is) the feeling of being untouchable. It was a tragic accident that they have ultimately paid the highest price for her. I personally didn’t think she’d return so soon and to her normal content (albeit on a scaled back version) however I luckily can not relate to the loss of a child and I don’t ever wish to be able to relate. I’d like to think she’s getting by because she has a baby she has to survive for. It’s truly awful what they have both been through, and their poor sons.
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I meant like an accident that they couldn’t prevent like a car accident or something they had no control over.
I mean it was an accident I’m not saying they wanted their child to die that would be crazy but her husband was absolutely negligent and I’d never forgive him and can’t understand how she can but it’s not my life and I don’t doubt she loves him and he feels truly awful and will pay for it emotionally for the rest of his life.
I do understand her just being a normal mum to their baby and carrying on with life as best she can but I will never believe the online stuff is her job that she must return to when it’s already cost them the life of their child.
they both have the resources to do absolutely anything else and make money another way.
No one needs to see her cleaning doing her make up or going out for coffee 4/5 months after her child died.
water/pool safety is what she could be talking about but she probably can’t right now as it’s too soon and must be extremely sensitive issue hopefully in time she will get there.
It was an entirely preventable accident that was down to neglectful parenting. Neglect in not securing the pool/garden and neglect in not watching where a 3 year old was for over 10 minutes. They were both responsible in their own ways.
She put a post on TikTok about how she’s been going to therapy, there were a couple of moments where she sounded like she was going to break down, bless her. I definitely don’t think she’s coping as well as her recent posts would suggest.
Who is looking after the baby while she's out doing all these solo activities? She struck me as a little wired to be honest - she's either medicated up to the eyeballs or she's ODing on caffeine in the iced coffees she's always drinking.
In her first post since they lost Trigg, she mentioned how much family had been doing for them. I think her family are helping look after Teddy at the house when she’s out, so he’s not alone with Brady.
Imagine having to have your husband supervised around your kids. Not how I'd chose to live.
I imagine her anxiety is through the roof anyway when she’s not with Teddy. I can’t imagine how she felt arriving at the restaurant then getting that phone call about Trigg when she had literally only just left him with Brady 20 minutes before.
So whys this waste of a space husband doing them?
Perhaps he's in rehab for his gambling " addiction" - isn't that the usual line men trot out when their bad behaviour gets exposed....
In her first video back she did say something like ‘there’s lots of things I want to talk about, especially with the platform I have, but I’m not ready just yet’ so I’m guessing that’s to do with the pools and safety side of things?
If this didn’t happen I wonder whether they would have got a fence once Teddy started to walk?
If this didn’t happen I wonder whether they would have got a fence once Teddy started to walk?
No, I don’t think Teddy walking would’ve had any bearing on their timeline for getting a fence installed. After all, they already had a walking talking curious child in Trigg and that didn’t seem to put them in any rush.
Being generous, I do think they intended to get one at some point but it wasn’t their priority as much as the plate wall was, or the pull out laundry hamper things, or the strange drawers they seem to cook their food in, or the drawer exclusively dedicated to teas and coffees.
The pool fence was gonna be after alllllll that.
I think for this reason I’m kinda struggling with emilie going straight back to “aesthetic” posting.
like who cares about that? It’s completely meaningless considering what happened.
She has posted a story where she actually mentions T by name. Staggering! She doesn’t seem able to speak it out loud though.
A thing I don’t understand is when she says things like “I missed you guys” to her followers. Does she mean as in a collective group of worshippers? I’m guessing she doesn’t know any of them individually or would recognise them in the street or know their names. It seems so strange to me to have missed that. What she means is she missed uploading her life and getting likes and interaction (also money?), is that right?
If I’m off work then I miss it, I miss my boss and (some!) coworkers. I know them personally and I enjoy their company but I guess she doesn’t have that. T was her coworker effectively, and now she’s on her own til T2 becomes his own person.
A thing I don’t understand is when she says things like “I missed you guys” to her followers. Does she mean as in a collective group of worshippers? I’m guessing she doesn’t know any of them individually or would recognise them in the street or know their names. It seems so strange to me to have missed that. What she means is she missed uploading her life and getting likes and interaction (also money?), is that right?
If I’m off work then I miss it, I miss my boss and (some!) coworkers. I know them personally and I enjoy their company but I guess she doesn’t have that. T was her coworker effectively, and now she’s on her own til T2 becomes his own person.
She’s addicted to social media. I honestly think she’s been filming herself/talking to a camera since the day it happened and has just been waiting until it seemed “acceptable” to post. She just can’t live without it.
I don’t want to judger her i really dont … and like someone else said i think she is probably medicated up to her eyeballs
But if you didn’t know what had happened just a few short months ago you would honestly think it was her dog that had died
But if you didn’t know what had happened just a few short months ago you would honestly think it was her dog that had died
This is such a strange situation where I agree with or see the point of almost all the posters, no matter what their views are on Emilie, whether they agree or disagree with what she’s doing, and the choice to post content/ what she posts. I can’t judge her or her actions as I’m sure she’s grieving deeply, though I do think if it was me I couldn’t even look at Brady again or continue my life with him
When our baby died, I became totally neurotic around our older toddler. I even stopped nursery/playgroup because I couldn't let her out of my sight. And that took a long time to be able to do. I get that Emilie is grieving. It's a horrendous thing to stand behind your child's coffin and have to say goodbye to them. It nearly killed me as well, and I'm so very glad we had one at home to "live for".
But I don't get how detached Emilie seems to be. And I can only guess it's medication. I tried anti depressants a few years later and they just made me feel numb - I didn't feel pain but I didn't feel joy either. My husband made me come off them as I was just a zombie. My guess would be her parents/family are living with her and doing 99% of the childcare.
But I don't get how detached Emilie seems to be. And I can only guess it's medication. I tried anti depressants a few years later and they just made me feel numb - I didn't feel pain but I didn't feel joy either. My husband made me come off them as I was just a zombie. My guess would be her parents/family are living with her and doing 99% of the childcare.
I wonder if she sees it as an acting job. She’s got a script, she puts on a face/voice. It’s not actually her.
Maybe that’s why she seems detached and doesn’t mention the elephant in the room.
A bit like if say Nicole Kidman’s kid died but she still had to go finish the film she was halfway through. When you saw the final film you’d never know what had happened.
Thats the only way I can make sense of her behaviour really.
Maybe that’s why she seems detached and doesn’t mention the elephant in the room.
A bit like if say Nicole Kidman’s kid died but she still had to go finish the film she was halfway through. When you saw the final film you’d never know what had happened.
Thats the only way I can make sense of her behaviour really.
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