DrMeredithGrey
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You are comparing two completely different losses.Because this is the reality of grief. Happiness does creep back up on you, and you feel absolutely awful for it. A month after my nan died, my mum was grinning her head off watching me graduate. She is allowed to feel happiness.
Sorry, but grief is not grief.
I’d lose my grandparent and go through that again and again and again rather than my child once. In any circumstance, but especially one that was so easily avoidable.