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Noseycosey

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She’s now got a thread on here 🙂
Thanks I’ll go find it. I don’t know who this other one in recovery is but I’ll have a nose.

i like her intentions, she seems really positive and determined to get better. So that’s good. She also wants to continue to share her journey online, so guess we will have to see how that plays out
I agree (now I’m looking at the right one) she seems quite sweet and I’m glad she is getting help
 
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Fifah1907

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Why did they hire her in the first place. She has 0 qualifications, she was just underweight. Also she 100% poses to make herself look super skeletal when she’s actually not anymore which is a good thing and she should be honouring that. Also do you guys think she had bulimia face or is it just super round
She’s got her L2 and is ‘working towards’ her L3, the turnover of staff in that gym is insane. Most staff left after 2/3 months, couldn’t even name most of the staff there by the time I left 🤷‍♀️ I would say more but I bit scared to out myself. I left a while before she started so I don’t know what the reaction was.
 
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glowgirl888

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She seems to be getting worse, double sessions are a regular thing, even today, poor recovery yet still goes for a swim, all the red flags!
 
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LLL111

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as much as i hate to be skeptical i feel like she’s probably going so hard on the recovery content because it’s a way of appearing like she’s completely better so no one will be questioning her, it’s a way of masking the ed behaviour she will 100% still have
yeah I agree - there's no way that 5 days in hospital is enough to totally transform her mindset etc. it's such a long and tough journey, I'm not sure she has the distance to have the presence of mind she thinks she does
 
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Fifah1907

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how does she even have time to spend the whole time running or in the gym does she not have college or a job?
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also out of curiousity is she adopted ? she doesnt look anything like her family not that its any of my business

She’s at uni, depending on the course she’s doing summer holidays can easily be from April/May to the end of September depending on her assessment type.
 
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ghostriderhere

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Why does she lie down mid burpee?? Isn’t a burpee meant to involve a press up rather than just laying on the floor? Also I find the constant bony bum shots very tiresome. Why does she insist in setting her camera up behind her instead of in front or to the side?!
 
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I just don’t understand how her therapist aren’t seeing through this as a way to compensate 🧐
They probably have considered this but at the end of the day they can’t stop her completely doing what she wants unless she’s admitted. Least she seems to be eating more these last few days. Not much we can do but sit back and allow her to recover the way she wants. She’s getting more noticed now by a lot more people. Hopefully this encourages her more now to recover. She’ll have a lot more resources available to her too along with the support from the new followers. She’s handling the journey so well and is taking accountability for a lot of her mistakes and thoughts. Good for her
 
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What you’ve said it very true, I understand recovery is different for everyone. Maybe it’s just me being jealous and feeling like a fat lump because I’ve gained 2 stone very quickly.
Please know it gets easier with time, I say my recovery is my greatest achievements, but was also my biggest struggle. It's only been the past couple of years have I accepted that I was never happy with how I looked, if anything more obsessed when a lower weight and it took time to think that I may as well just be healthy. I really did find it helpful to unfollow Ed related people on Instagram, I know it's hard but if you're anything like me and log into insta everyday, it takes away the constant reminder of others
 
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Fifah1907

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I can’t believe (well, I can because it’s commercial gyms 😅) that she actually got a job in a gym. Maybe it’s just me but I would have hoped for a modicum of ‘maybe this isn’t a good idea’ from the gym manager. Although I used to go to that gym so I don’t know why I’m surprised 🫣
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Yes you’ve worded this very well.
I hate that her justification for exercising now as well is that she had ‘5 weeks off’ at the start of her recovery. Well yeah no sh*t you were close to cardiac arrest.
Urgh it all makes me irrationally mad because she’s touting herself as a role model
I had five weeks off last year cos I went on holiday and didn’t come back as hard as she has 😭
 
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junehouse

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Comments all not happy about her starting the app either!
I’ve seen a lot of her little minions commenting though 🤦🏻‍♀️ dragging the girl down in the video and saying she’s just as bad…no hun she’s not claiming to be recovered and coaching vulnerable people 😂
 
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smooth_operator33

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Ngl I do feel for the girl. She must feel a huge amount of pressure to post what she’s eating so she can prove it to others. I know how difficult this is too I’m sure we all do. She has gained a lot of followers this last month so that must be getting to her too. We always have to remember though she did expose her methods of purging so have to take that into consideration too as she will never openly admit if she does purge now. So many things riding on this poor girl now, she may not help herself but at the end of the day she’s only 20 and it still coming to terms with her disorder now and we should respect that.
She does also seem like she has a strong support system. I think it’s sweet that her parents buy her sweets and get her out to lunch. I really do want the best for her - she seems like a nice girl.
I’m 22 now and I regret not going all in - I’m still riddled with behaviours tbh :(
 
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kaaa2

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I don’t follow her, but she shows up on my TikTok and ig all of the time! Do you think she is truthful about being ‘recovered’ or I wonder if she’s one of those that portrays they’re healthy when really they’re still in a dark place behind the scenes and restricting.
She’s not recovered one bit I’d say
 
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ghostriderhere

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Have I missed something or is she no longer doing weight gain journey progress photos?? Where did the gainwithem stuff go?? I can guarantee that sandwich she claims is a snack is actually the lunch she hasn’t bothered having
 
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