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emm

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I only came across her recently, I agree with a lot of what has been said. Her sister ( I cannot remember the name ) quite agressively telling her she hadn't recovered was just awful to hear... I was honestly shocked that she (seemingly secretly filmed it)... but her other sister who has lost all of the weight... this is so worrying, and how Elzani is showing it..... doesn't seem like she is over her ED at all. I feel really bad for her parents, her mum in particualr, it must be SO hard to know what to do in this situation, but they have just babied her too much I guess, and as others have said, which is common in all mental health issues, she hasn't developed since she got ill, so still seems childlike. She seems like a great person, but needs more help
 

emm

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I do worry. I had anorexia for 4 years but now recovered and in a good career. There are times when I feel if I let my emotions and let the things life throws at you get to me it could lead to ED thoughts and behaviours. Especially because it’s her first break up. My heart breaks for her.
I agree she needs to look at studying or getting a job. Something to keep her directed and keeps her feeling like she has a purpose. When I was sick, I felt like I had no purpose. When I got a job and socialising it eventually became less and less.
Hoping her fam support her as much as they can
I don't follow her anymore as I don't use tiktok but what has she been doing? Just tiktok full time? I totally agree she needs to get a job or go to uni, being a full time tiktoker is not positive for anyone imo
 

HairyBerries

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I hope not. She has been/is honestly so inspiring. It's such a knock while things were going well then they were not.

Post break-up pain can last for years.
 

Delia Smith

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Her eyes roll to the back of her head whenever she eats something she likes ...it’s like she having an orgasm and she’s very OTT with how ‘amazing’ everything tastes. So weird to do that with almost every bit of food.
 

Applespice

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I think she's done amazingly too, but she is in a very fortunate position. Very wealthy supportive family, lots of lovely food and experiences, live in a gorgeous part of the UK, no responsibilities. All these things don't cure mental health issues but they certainly put her in a good position to.

I've never had issues with an ED but several friends have, and they say it will always be with them in some form or another.

I think as sweet as she is, Elzani is quite stunted in development. Right now she's living like a teenager and couldn't care less. I think her mum enables her but I understand how anxious she must be after almost losing her. I wonder what her sisters really think of it all.
Definetly true..she is very privileged.