I'm not doubting she's grieving. I'm saying I find the decision for a partner and parents to retrieve a dead man's sperm to not be romantic or marvellous, I think it's wrong. And as for the "mourns the future she isn't going to have with the father of her child" - well that's part of my issue with the decision. She chose to do so, knowing he wouldn't be around (and not because he'd be an absent father, but because he was dead before she retrieved the sperm).