Ellidy Pullin

[thatsmygrift]

Ok so I've heard of this shit mother but never followed her. What is the story with the weird throuple they have going on? Can someone please give quick recap

The cast:

Ellidy Pullin- 30 something
Minnie - 2, Ellidy’s daughter
Chloe Fisher - 30 something
Fisher - 40ish touring DJ
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Alex “Chumpy” Pullin - deceased; Ellidy’s former partner, Minnie’s father via post-mortem sperm retrieval. Olympian.

Chloe and Ellidy have been friends since high school. Ellidy was with Chumpy for 8ish years before his death by having a blackout while spear fishing. In the 36hrs following his death, his sperm was harvested and through IVF, Minnie was born some 16 months after his death. There was a lot of press/ profiles of Ellidy around this time due to the procedure still being very controversial.

Chloe has been with Fisher for 12+ years and his career has blown up massively in the last 6 years or so, they are now multi millionaires and travel around the world. Chloe and Fisher tried to conceive for almost 4 years and experienced rounds of failed IVF, miscarriages, elective surgeries and investigated surrogacy - which their extreme wealth was able to provide without any financial hardship.

Together, Chloe and Ellidy began a podcast, to navigate Ellidy’s grief about Chumpy’s death and Chloe’s grief around infertility. Originally the pod was supposed to help ALL women navigate grief and pain - but that went out the window pretty quickly as the minute these women felt a bit better, they revealed their true selves.

Ellidy has barely done a day of single parenting on her own in 2.5 years. She’s constantly dragging Minnie to adult events (including raves), or foisting her onto other people to look after while she’s gets on it. People go to Fisher concerts with pictures of Minnie on tshirts and placards - and the Fishers and their entourage actively encourage this, with no regard for Minnie’s safety, that maybe a crowd of 30k people (and the extended social media platform of 1.5M) should not have a parasocial relationship with a two year old, that it might be a very, bad idea.
Oh plus the two year old is constantly on boats without a life jacket, scooters in Bali without a helmet, in restaurants with adults at 10pm at night - all of which we know because they’re posting about it.
You never see her interact with other children.

Over to Chloe - she naturally fell pregnant late last year. After spending 4 years lecturing (often through tears) her platform about how not to trigger infertile women, she threw all her own advice out the window and has proudly made her whole personality “the only woman who has ever been pregnant” smug asshole.

Now, the ‘podcast about women’s grief and pain’ covers riveting topics like the Fisher’s private jet, Maccas, what they buy at the shops, the luxury wellness retreat they snuck chocolate into, Chloe whinging about pregnancy (so sensitive), Ellidy whinging she can’t fly a toddler to Europe in economy anymore, and constant shoutouts to brands they’d like to do sponsored content with.

Let me know if I missed anything people!

 

[savefloss]

You’d think someone who lost their partner in a tragic accident would take more care with their child?

 

[thatsmygrift]

Of course she was triggered. It was literally the first time in her whole life that what she wanted wasn’t just handed to her (by someone else’s work)

“Corporate job” - got through her mum
Millions of dollars and global lifestyle - thanks Paul
Podcast - I know she does the admin but c’mon, the pod would not exist without Ellidy and her story. Who on earth would listen to a pod Chloe did on her own?

Not being able to click her fingers and get a baby is literally the first hurdle she ever faced in 30+ years on earth. And she had a four year meltdown over it.

Not that she’s got a baby, her world returns to normal and she is now totally unbothered about infertile women’s problems. This was only ever about her personal fee-fees.

 

[mightyraven62]

So glad I found this thread! Been on here for yoga girls thread forever. Can’t wait to go back and read what I’ve missed y’all. Anyway - anyone else listen to the most recent episode of the podcast and find it so stupid and out of touch? Ellidy and her guest doing the whole pick me “I’m not like other girls” bit, talking about how they’re “manly” and “guys just want these pretty little dolled up girls” like mate you’re objectively gorgeous, tall, A MODEL AND INFLUENCER…..???? You’re not special and cool because you are a tomboy

 

[influencerstalk]

I started following her after I lost my husband. She is further along in her grief than me. So I think a lot of her actions are just her immature personality and nothing to do with grief. Unless she is just avoiding being home alone w Minnie. I just focus on my 3 kids and they love stability like every night we have a family dinner at the dining table for example. I do over compensate in some areas - like I do spend more than I should on them. I can see that is a way I deal w my grief at times by over spending on the kids when I feel low to give me a boost.. and I need to work on this. But I think Ellidy is more about herself than Minnie. Also different I guess as Minnie didn’t know her Dad so doesn’t know what she is missing out on like my kids do.

I hope an honest friend can suggest to her she needs to do a parenting course to cover the basics like child safety, child protection, socialisation for Minnie and explain to her that material things mean nothing to kids. They just want a home life filled w love and stability

 

[dontcome@me]

So download of what I know about her from way back. She got married young. Must’ve been very early 20s. Think her insta name used to be mrsemmadavies… the guy was Seb Davies, not sure if he was a low grade footy player or some kind of sportsman. She was if I recall a PA in the legal industry. Anyway, she built her following on social media due to the extravagant and OTT lifestyle they showed. I’m talking everything from holidays to just “date nights at home” where she used to get companies to come in and do a full like picnic set up in their apartment, all for the gram. Presents were always designer and OTT. Their holidays were ridiculous. Think breakfast at giraffe manor in SA photos.
I lost track of her around the time her marriage broke down - she may have gone offline for a bit. Then she popped up with a clothing line “Sporte the label” and also set up her own PR company so was pushing the boss babe agenda for a bit.
Then she met another guy called Matt Jameison who I didn’t think would be her type (her ex was traditionally handsome and clean cut) and was real OTT about their relationship and tbf, she seemed really into him. He has a render company (have seen them on The Block). They bought a house in Burleigh for $775k and lived in for a few months before doing a massive Reno and documenting it. The whole house was basically rendered inside and out. But got heaps of publicity, and sold for like $2.7m so after flipping it they easily made $1m profit in about 18 months of owning it if not more as he did loads of the Reno work.
They went on a massive boujee European summer trip. She bought him a Rolex and a week in Qualia in Hamilton island for his 30th. From memory they then bought a second property to try and flip it and then suddenly her account was gone. She reappeared after months, and it was obvious they had broken up. Obviously ended badly. Would love to know the juicy details. He had moved on. Maybe he cheated on her?
Anyway next thing she’s after spending a month in Bali and she’s suddenly an interior designer and building villas over there. Next thing she’s moving to LA. She’s between the GC, Sydney, Melbourne, Bali and LA every time I look. She’s hanging around with the IT crowd everywhere though including Ellidy and Chloe, Gypsy Lust, and randomly pops up in LA with more famous people like Hayden James, Diplo etc. Her younger brother plays tennis and was in the Australian open this year (Dane).
Fascinating lifestyle really if I’m honest. From a yoyeurism standpoint I love it

 

[horseteeth]

I actually can’t believe how much Chloe is flaunting her pregnancy. I know it’s exciting - but she is the very person that said how awful it is when people do it, awful for those trying to conceive, have had losses etc.
She is a huge hypocrite! And her content is even more boring now

 

[Newhere2]

Stuff like this shits me so much. The Fishers don't need free nappies. Women's shelters and charities do!

 

[thatsmygrift]

Last year, they described fostering a child in Africa like going shopping.

Chloe said women who have children should not be allowed to express any frustration with parenting on socials as it’s triggering for women TTC.

Chloe has also said that pregnancy announcements or pregnancy content on socials should come with a trigger warning. She did give a warning on the announcement but after that just carried on like the Main Character she thinks she is.

God Fisher’s back must be getting sore from carrying both of these hypocritical, low-self-aware, anti-intelligent, self important fucks.

 

[cawfeecam]

sharing this before it gets taken down.
what an absolute idiot.
no car seat in a clearly moving car.
“Partners in crime” your daughter didn’t get a say.
Ellidy is scum.
Like honestly, you’ve already lost chump. You’d think you’d take human life a bit more seriously.

 

[thatsmygrift]

My bad - I swear I thought Ellidy reshared Chloe’s stories then deleted but I could be wrong.

the number of chicks in the comments on the Aussie Influencer’s post who seem to think these chicks can walk on water is staggering.

And personally, the, “how dare you call out a pregnant person” thinking enraging. When I was pregnant (IVF after 3 years TTC) guess what - I still had to go to work and deal with shitty manager and client feedback when I didn’t deliver.

Pregnant people are not to be treated like their brains don’t have to function.

 

[savefloss]

I listened to their special ep about the Fisher baby. They only both gave up the booze in September and then pregnant right away…. Obviously it’s not all down to that but kinda ironic how many times it’s been brought up here. Ellidy interrupts the whole time

I mean, I hate to say I told you so..but I kinda did
I find it wild that anyone would literally spend thousands on specialists before giving up booze for 6-12 months first. She should have been not drinking if trying to conceive anyway… obviously they are not the brightest

 

[thatsmygrift]

Would Listnr really be paying the thousands of dollars an episode? Anyone have any inside knowledge?

The last reviewer is spitting FIRE.

 

[dulcielaroux]

The final straw for me came when Ellidy did an interview (might have been with Mamamia or on her own podcast, can’t remember) saying something about how she doesn’t want Minnie’s life to be about grief - which I totally respected and think is a beautiful sentiment - but then she followed it up with how Minnie never knew Chumpy and so she hasn’t lost him, Ellidy lost Chumpy, but Minnie didn’t so Minnie doesn’t have anything to grieve. Which I think is so wrong - he’s still her father. She will learn one day about how she came to exist and she will have feelings about that. I have a very close friend who’s father died a month before she was born - it has shaped her entire life and is something she deals with even now. I just thought it was such a ridiculous thing to say and showed her true colours a bit. Yes, don’t raise her to focus on the grief but don’t go around denying that she’s lost something.

 

[cooked_influencers]

I generally just stalk on tattle and don’t post too much (I try not to be a negative Nancy), but I’m glad this thread is here because I cannot stand Ellidy.

This is going to make me sound like a stuck up Melburnian, but she comes across as a typical, dense, Gold Coast bogan influencer.

She’s taking advantage of Chloe and fisher, she knows they desperately want a kid and they are basically second parents to Minnie. She knows they will do anything for her.

I couldn’t imagine losing my partner, so I truly feel for her. But her behaviour keeps being masked as her ‘journey’ or ‘healing’ and it’s not. She’s just a reckless parent. I wonder (this is going to sound brutal and I hate that I’m writing this) if chumpy was still around if she would basically get away with behaving the way she does.

 

[ScumdogMillionheir]

I think the fishers relationship with Minnie is sweet, if I was a single mum I would be so appreciative of my besties stepping up and helping me and so generously giving me and my baby these amazing experiences. As problematic as some of the things Ellidy does is, I think the fishers are pretty wholesome and they wouldn’t do all the shit they do for Ellidy and Minnie if they didn’t truly want to. I listened to the recent podcast that Chloe and Ellidy have and Fisher genuinely loves that baby.

 

[thatsmygrift]

I'm actually pretty shocked at her with her belly out in every pic considering how much of a strop she threw last year

I’m not shocked - she’s totally self-absorbed main character energy. And for all the “woo” spiritual shit she gets into, she’s as deep as a bathroom floor puddle.

 

[Summer17day]

She honesty thinks she is the first woman alive to have a baby.

 

[Newhere2]

Confused why the theme is giving virginal bride

Because this child is clearly the second coming of Christ, just ask Chloe

 

[thatsmygrift]

“More mornings like this” lmao cool yeah enjoy your weekday morning walk on the beach before you head back to your multi million dollar home while the rest of us work our actual jobs and struggle through life

The pod today! Some random (from the US) asked for AU honeymoon recommendations and the ONLY place they actually recommended was Bedarra Island in the Whitsundays, which is minimum $2,100 a night.

Oh, but they both admitted they’ve never been there - ‘but we’d love to collaborate!!’

Great recommendation guys. Real authentic.