Ella Ravenscroft

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Just seen her latest bikini picture and she looks amazing just a few months PP but I can’t help be a bit suspicious - she doesn’t seem to have any sort of c section scar. Do we think she’s photoshopping 🤥
C sections scars are on the very bottom of her stomach, her bikini bottom probably covers it
 
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You can see her scar faintly in the other bikini pic she popped up
 
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Dead that romance delivers every OTHER week, is it romance if it’s on a schedule? Idk I’m not the one with a rock on my finger so can’t comment! 🤣
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Dead that romance delivers every OTHER week, is it romance if it’s on a schedule? Idk I’m not the one with a rock on my finger so can’t comment! 🤣View attachment 786892
With all his millions from scamming people into extortionate care homes fees it should be a weekly occurrence at the minimum, unless he has set up weekly service and each alternative week another girl is getting a delivery
 
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I’m just waiting for Ella’s next trip to the Dorchester in London to include a visit to Salt Bae’s new restaurant where she gets the £600 steak
 
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So she’s had a night nanny to sleep train her child, must be nice. Maybe William didn’t fancy being involved 😅
 
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So she’s had a night nanny to sleep train her child, must be nice. Maybe William didn’t fancy being involved 😅
No such thing as sleep training. It’s teaching your child you aren’t coming and won’t respond to their cries. It’s so damaging. I hope she has researched the serious implications and knows the damage it will do.
 
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No such thing as sleep training. It’s teaching your child you aren’t coming and won’t respond to their cries. It’s so damaging. I hope she has researched the serious implications and knows the damage it will do.
Sleep training is not teaching them you aren’t coming and most ways certainly aren’t ‘damaging’. Sleep training teaches a child how to fall asleep whilst still being reassured you’re nearby (most ways, anyway). Most involve staying close by and or using touch to comfort rather than talking/rocking/cradling.

I would say at least 90% of parents I know do some form of sleep training.

Ella hasn’t said which method she was using as far as I’ve seen and I’d assume given she hired a sleep nanny would mean it wasn’t the harshest version (cry it out) and is more about routine and reassurance
 
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Sleep training is not teaching them you aren’t coming and most ways certainly aren’t ‘damaging’. Sleep training teaches a child how to fall asleep whilst still being reassured you’re nearby (most ways, anyway). Most involve staying close by and or using touch to comfort rather than talking/rocking/cradling.

I would say at least 90% of parents I know do some form of sleep training.

Ella hasn’t said which method she was using as far as I’ve seen and I’d assume given she hired a sleep nanny would mean it wasn’t the harshest version (cry it out) and is more about routine and reassurance
But why do people think babies even need sleep training? Sleep is developmental. When we as adults wake in the night hungry, thirsty, scared from a bad dream, cold, hot, uncomfortable we know how to sort it to get back to sleep. Adults don’t sleep through so I don’t understand the obsession with babies having to.

Whatever “method” Ella has done they’re all the same really - not responding fully. Why would you just put your hand on your baby when you could just pick them up and rock them back to sleep? Surely it’s faster and easier for everyone just to respond properly?
 
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But why do people think babies even need sleep training? Sleep is developmental. When we as adults wake in the night hungry, thirsty, scared from a bad dream, cold, hot, uncomfortable we know how to sort it to get back to sleep. Adults don’t sleep through so I don’t understand the obsession with babies having to.

Whatever “method” Ella has done they’re all the same really - not responding fully. Why would you just put your hand on your baby when you could just pick them up and rock them back to sleep? Surely it’s faster and easier for everyone just to respond properly?
I can say from experience it’s not always quicker to ‘respond properly’.

There are a number of reasons I personally sleep trained. My child was miserable in the day time because he was so exhausted from not sleeping in the night. I was also exhausted which meant I couldn’t do all the things my child deserved me to do with him. My mental health seriously suffered from all of that as I wasn’t being the mum I had always imagined I would be and that my son deserved.

Everyone has their own opinions and reasons as to why they parent their child in certain ways, just like I’m sure Ella does.

Appreciate your opinion is different than Ella’s (and clearly mine) but to call that ‘damaging’ and that it has serious implications is just so naive and unfair without knowing the full reasons behind a parents decisions on how to raise their own child.
 
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So she’s had a night nanny to sleep train her child, must be nice. Maybe William didn’t fancy being involved 😅
Not surprising, really. William's sister had one so I think a few of us were speculating that Ella would get one as well.
 
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So she’s had a night nanny to sleep train her child, must be nice. Maybe William didn’t fancy being involved 😅
Really ?! There I thought from her stories about him sleeping through etc that she had done it all themselves!! Haha
 
Yup, this was her insta today!

It's a bit sad really. Why do influencers see every developmental thing in children as a problem to throw money at and solve? To me, it wreaks of wanting a child for status and not because you want to care for it. They all seem to overreact about normal baby behaviour until they can they present an expensive solution to something that is absolutely normal and nothing to worry about. I spent a lot of time with au pairs when I was little but I'm pretty sure even my parents were able to get me off to sleep without it being framed as some unique struggle.
 
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I agree, she was so slim before she got pregnant and I actually think she looks better now as she’s been going to the gym etc. The dream to look like that now never mind after a baby hahah
 
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