Ella Ravenscroft

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I feel really sorry for her, I guess being in the pageant and instagram influencer environment where the sole focus is on your looks is not very good for anyone's mental state. I worry about young girls exposed to this mindset, I think it is actually getting worse rather than better. I'm in my mid 20s now, and was a teenager at the start of social media, the pictures I and my friends used to post were not filtered and edited and posed to perfection. I still feel the pressure to look good sometimes but I don't photoshop my pics and just try to feel comfortable in who I am. However I don't think the pressure to look perfect weighs as heavily on me as it does on girls just one or two years younger who have been exposed to this "insta perfect" idea for longer than me. And because everyone seems to edit and filter their pics so much it's actually hard to realise that it is totally normal for even very slim women to have stretch marks, cellulite, spots etc. Nobody, even the most famous models in the world have a perfect body, the pics you see in magazines are just photoshopped. We all have our little flaws and we shouldn't have to spend so much of our time and money fixing them or thinking about them. It's just so so sad. All that matters is whether you are healthy.

Yes it's nice to look nice, but that's only one small part of you. Looks fade with time for even the most beautiful in the world. She really should be trying to enjoy motherhood and her beautiful little boy as he is growing up without having to worry about how she looks. She is also recovering from major surgery! Although c sections are so common, people really do forget that it's a big operation! Totally normal to take a while to recover and there should be no rush. We also forget because medical advances are so good that childbirth is actually one of the riskiest things a woman can do, so many women and babies died in the past and still sometimes do today. Mother and baby being healthy and happy is the most important thing, not how you look.

You couldn’t have worded this better. I’m prob gonna go off on a tangent here but I’m late twenties and find Insta sooo toxic nowadays. Gone are the days where you could post a bunch of random pictures and get 5 likes and then get on with your day. I even feel paranoid when I upload a picture now and check my flaws in the pic, its utter madness so I’ve decided to deactivate. Twitter was the go-to social networking site when I was growing up which allowed you to project your personality a bit and we rarely ever posted selfies / perfectly posed pics. Facetune wasn’t a thing then. I find it really sad and I do worry about teenagers and the younger generation growing up in todays society, there will be no incentive to get good grades and a decent job when you can earn tit load of money looking pretty on Insta. Surely it can’t get any worse than it is now??
 
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I think it depends what generation you are in.
Teenagers now have it so much harder in terms of pressure. Pressure to look 25 at 15

I’ve just turned 30 and I feel more at peace and happy with myself and how I look. I’ve had bits of filler, I work out but I also spend my weekends with my hair scraped up getting dirty with my toddler.

I also am so glad I don’t have to project myself across the internet. It must be so damaging deep down to have to pretend you don’t care, jeez if I read a thread about people’s opinions on me I’d hate it! But that’s the industry sadly and I can’t see how anyone aspires to get into it.

I hope she looks at her self deep down and doesn’t recognise her worth for her looks. She’s got a lovely little boy who thinks the world of her regardless if she has a stretchmark or two on her legs
 
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Who was Williams ex girlfriend? Someone said it was Emily shayks friend?? ... how did Emily introduce them both?
 
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Who was Williams ex girlfriend? Someone said it was Emily shayks friend?? ... how did Emily introduce them both?
His ex was Emily’s friend Melissa.
When they broke up I assume Emily introduced William to Ella through “influencer” world but unsure?
 
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Ella and Emily aren't friends anymore, at least I don't think they are. Just checked and they don't follow each other on IG now.
 
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Bloody hell! Cannot believe how much she fits in her bathroom. A pram and a chair and still loads of room. I think her bathroom is the size of my kitchen!
 
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Bloody hell! Cannot believe how much she fits in her bathroom. A pram and a chair and still loads of room. I think her bathroom is the size of my kitchen!
Her bathroom looks so gorgeous. Also love that there’s a pillar in the middle of it. She really is living the fairy tail
 
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I cant imagine getting as dressed up as she does including styled hair and heavy make up, to batch to her newborn to just stay in the house all day. I reckon William is quite a hard worker/works long hours as he didnt even have paternity leave so surely her appearance is not for him, i just hope she is dressing up for her own sake not because she feels she has too
 
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Is it only me who wouldn't have dirty pram wheels anywhere near my bathroom?
 
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I don’t think Ella has a nannie yet. But williams sister has a night time nannie.
I just couldn’t have a nanny, yes being a mother is hard and the tiredness is a killer but it gets better overtime. I don’t really see the point in having children just to fob them off to someone else 🥺
 
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I just couldn’t have a nanny, yes being a mother is hard and the tiredness is a killer but it gets better overtime. I don’t really see the point in having children just to fob them off to someone else 🥺
I’ve never seen the appeal. I’ve had my son work with me since he was tiny and it’s hard, I cry, he cries (we do laugh too I promise!) but it’s part of it. Motherhood is raw, hard and you gotta dig deep sometimes but it’s what it is and the small years don’t last for long do they?
 
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His ex was Emily’s friend Melissa.
When they broke up I assume Emily introduced William to Ella through “influencer” world but unsure?
I wonder why they broke up.... I read he is 32 and didn’t have no children ( before this one )?
 
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