Eimear Varian Barry #4

[Mochalatte]

Um it’s written by someone called W and the person whose account this is is also W so you either wrote it yourself Eimear and screen shot it or you know who wrote it because the person that sent it to you was the person who wrote it? So why asking your followers who did it?

 

[Not_Today_Satan__]

Maybe if you don't want to share personal things online anymore, don't ambiguously trash the father of your kids to your 90K audience. Could just say that I'm grateful I've moved on or I'm grateful for a fresh start or I'm grateful to be on my own or whatever, but no, let's go the extra mile, stick the knife in & really twist. This is the same person who claimed she "gives as good" as she gets so which is it? There's no growth, maturity or objectivity there.

 

[Watchwoman]

she paved paradise and put in a resin parking lot

 

[Basicbasic]

The saviour complex and self delusion seems to be at an all time high. She really thinks she's on par with Marcus rashford, the constant tags and comparisons. She used followers money to create endless content to centre herself and make herself look like a martyr. She also spread covid on her rounds. Eimear please stop. You did a good deed and you've lost all respect for what you did by going on and on and on and on about it.

 

[Corkonienne]

Didn’t she say the resin area would make a great events space?!

An events space? In the concreted back garden of a suburban Surrey bungalow, surrounded by several other suburban Surrey bungalows? G'wan gurrrrrl.

The silliness and delusions of grandeur know no bounds.

The backyard was one of the positive features of the property. So much for nature being so tHerapeuTic and cALming and AAAAAMMMMMAAAAZZZZING. This garden reno is just the next installment on the carousel of chaos.

 

[I got up at 5am]

That’s a hard watch but she needs to stop saying how much she loves exercise and how comfortable she is in her body when she clearly doesn’t feel that way. Exercise shouldn’t make you cry. There are different levels that you can do so you can choose something enjoyable. Try walking Eimear, create a playlist and walk for an hour everyday. Put the phone down for a while and live in the moment

 

[JJJ1234]

The scans. Eimear you did not get these women pregnant

“Remember when I put that fire truck on my stories and it sort of turned into babies being born?”

If I read that statement in a serious way it show what an egotistical person she is. I AM RESPONSIBLE for the bringing of lives into the world 40 weeks after I strategically put a sex chat box into my insta page. I am on par with IVF specialists.

If I read it in a casual way it shows what uninformed scatterbrained eejits she and these other women who are commenting on her post are. She is not a “hero” you weirdos and if she is “giving courage to so many” the world is even more fucked than we think. But shur let me casually throw up a pic of a foetus while I wait for the kettle to boil. Still sure that she writes a lot of those comments from another account but even one genuine type of those cringe suck up comments is too much.

 

[Whats_my_name_again]

This hair 'drama' that she has caused is exactly why I've unfollowers her. She is so deliberate with her actions. Posts warts and all coverage about everything else, then deliberately leaves out that bit of info (which she could have just been so transparent about and it would be no big deal) to create content. She loves trying to play the victim. That the world is out to get her. Such a load of contrived bullshit.

 

[Pissedoffwithinfluencers]

I’m really intrigued as to what the deal is with the kids as they seem to be out of that house a lot under this current arrangement which is unusual.
It thought she had been getting advice about picking a lane and being business focussed but that lasted 2 weeks. Campaigner , fund raiser, beauty shiller, martyr, food shilling, Oxford course , exercise , mental health , drink , no drink , kids, dogs , wtf?! ... artist, business woman, film maker , photographer It’s like she’s spewed up after eating too much Instagram pick n mix

 

[Not_Today_Satan__]

She has a literal pattern everytime they break up; 'business woman', erratic stories on several topics, suddenly bursting to do loads of work on the house with anyone but himself, OTT sexual posts, & finally the "working on myself" posts. Every. Single. Time. Change the record.

Did anyone catch the tone last night when she was talking about having a shit day but "won't go into it because I'm not sharing anything personal on Instagram anymore", almost like that wasn't entirely her choice?

 

[LifecanBe14772]

The time line is baffling... from shopping in Tesco every second of the day, to a positive result, to shopping for plant pots? Even if she didn’t “feel unwell”, it’s incredibly selfish to think she could’ve knowingly put others at risk,

This is why she hasn't addressed it and probably why she had her little meltdown and went offline. The dates don't add up and she knew she'd be slated for it so played the victim again to distract.

 

[Pissedoffwithinfluencers]

This was posted on another thread but it applies to basically all of them...

 

[Not_Today_Satan__]

I feel for her. I've definitely been in workout classes and thought nope not for me & find it completely overwhelming & never go back again. I find one on one better than a class because I compare myself to others who are fitter/stronger/faster and that's not conducive to a positive workout.

I do hope for her she starts talking to herself like she would a friend & advising herself as such. If I was her friend I'd say...

- Please call me, don't cry into a phone. It may feel good at the time but you're only relieving those feelings temporarily, receiving an instant reaction from people who don't know you and can't offer you a real-time real life plan to work through it. It's almost like grief tourism except you're the attraction & they're just passing through.

- Your feelings about your body are valid but don't bog yourself down in them. Your body has travelled, given you three healthy babies, held you up even when you thought you couldn't go on & also so far done really well through a pandemic. It doesn't look like it used to a few years ago but it's not meant to; it has mileage, it has growth.

- Rectify the thought that restoring yourself to the body you had 5 years ago will not restore the happiness you had then. Eimear 5 years ago also had a hell of a lot of trials and tribulations to go through, you lived it & it didn't have an insta filter on it.

- Look forward. This period right now will not last forever but you must be looking in the direction you're going to give yourself the best chance of navigating it.

- If you're feeling overwhelmed, invest the time in realising what you can and cannot control. You can control your outgoings. You can control the situations that aren't working for you (ie. Don't break your bollix for a gym class that doesn't work for you) You can control your time. You cannot control other people. You cannot control other people's reactions.

- Stop portraying what you're not feeling. And that's not on any insta accountability bullshit - although I like everyone to be accurate and accountable - but in this instance by portraying I LOVE MY BODY and EXERCISE IS GREAT you're doing yourself more damage because when you're not feeling sky high about everything, you're then swinging between Love & Hate extremes. And that's not healthy. Stop speaking and thinking of yourself in absolutes and start accepting the fluidity of your feelings towards yourself. It will be less of a battle.

I've accused Eimear before of lodging her head up her own arse when she didn't want to deal or accept the reality but I honestly hope she's had a come to Jesus moment for her own sake & finally just accept that she can admit it's not all fab & grand. Because it's not - for anyone.

 

[JJJ1234]

She puts up a pic on stories of a pair of shorts- Tags them but no “ad”. Waits a few more slides then tags as ad then asks why she rarely sees “influencers” tagging things as ads- why don’t you ask yourself girl as you didn’t do it yourself a few slides back? Then the question box tactic again. Anything for a birra cheap engagement even if it is at the expense of some vulnerable people who are giving some VERY personal info to someone they don’t even know and who is the last person I would trust.

 

[ttttttttttttt]

I used to follow Eimear all the time before, loved her creative content and her personality. But I genuinely couldn't now... I have a look every now and then... and was shocked just recently to see how much she had flipped her opinion about her relationship so quickly and the really really personal stuff she was sharing openly on a public platform. Not my cup of tea, and that does not make me a hater or a troll. I prefer to follow more calming people on social media who make me feel inspired, not anxious. If Eimear is reading this and takes offence at this, then that's her issue completely. I wish the best for her and her family.

 

[Lucozadelover]

Imagine all the teachers staff and families at risk putting her children into school while she sits watching the neighbour get a pole delivered into their back garden... essential worker really??? She should be ashamed because she would be the first person giving out if her children brought it home from asymptomatic children who’s mother had Covid

 

[SoHereForTheGoss]

Her latest picture give me the creeps, the long school socks, headband and poses. She looks like a middle aged woman trying to be Lolita, not one bit sexy at all! Someone commented “Princess Diana vibes” which Eimear claimed to be feeling, I’m sorry but when did Diana look like a sorry state of sex bomb gone wrong! I sound harsh but she is embarrassing herself at every opportunity, just leave all that to the 20 year olds!

 

[Tank Girl]

Cant look anymore , shes drinking champagne out of Debenhams discounted glasses to watch Children of Tuam like it was some soap opera Shes right im torturing myself

 

[marymac19]

There is no child getting 15mins screen time. None. Ffs

 

[Londoncailín]

£2.2k for a six week long course that’s delivered online? Oh, but there is an exam at the end. I love how patronising she was with her spiel about understanding that people will want to do the course but not have the money to spend, so she’ll share everything? She’s away with the fairies.

Hope she’s aware of the rules of intellectual property rights and educational institutions.