@DramaticMAC - Aisling Murray

[Dearreader]

What I said was what you quoted. That in MY part of the world, men who are not working towards a future by 24+ (not 21) are not on track to amount to much HERE. There is ALOT of competition here for good careers/positions, and if you are not on track early, you are out of the game. Happy to hear it's different in Ireland, but that doesn't change it HERE. (btw just try living in the US & raising a family on a McDonald's salary. good luck with living on love in NYC lol) No one is implying anything about Ireland. I don't live in Ireland which is why I ASKED about culture norms in Ireland. I know we have a faster-paced culture, but good or bad, it is what it is. Seriously, checking out now because this forum gives me a headache and that's just not what I'm here for.

Take care xx

I just don't measure the worthiness of a man based on his salary... Nothing to do with " living on love" and everything to do with morals and being raised to not value individuals based on their bank account

 

[Sazb64]

Shoots I was hoping for an engagement ring on this lovely romantic spa night away but who knows maybe it's start of baby #2

Off topic kinda but did anyone else freeze on the menu? It looked like nice options.

I can't see him putting a ring on it anytime soon. I'd say she'll want a mad expensive ring/wedding and I can only imagine the cost of the house reno!

 

[Oohthedrama]

Did anyone give a good question for the Q&A?
Any bets on how they met?

she’s so guarded the answers will be planned and probably asked by her.
and I’m sure the “how we met” story will also be edited by her,

she is the girl who got pregnant by “accident” (as I said before I assume she knew what her plan was, but he didn’t)
She cried about telling him/his family.
She then got offended because people asked if it was an accidental pregnancy and made out it wasn’t.


8 months later they finally film it think they’ve been nervous about doing it for some reason.

 

[Oohthedrama]

Yet more pointless fucking buying of crap.
she’s hilarious with the nails, waving the hands around all throughout the vlog trying to get them in shot, preening at the hair extensions, going around pound shops buying pink mugs and fake perfume,
it’s like watching a 16 year old.

you wouldn’t even think they had a kid watching yesterday’s vlog.

 

[Keikochan]

I wonder if her & Paddy will ever actually move in together, & not like him move into her parents house or her into his parents house but like actually out on their own. The more she is leaving the baby with Granny & Granddad the more I doubt it tbh.
I'd say if they do move out, she'll be dropping Noah off with the Grandparents so she can have her days out & long weekends alone.

 

[Scorching Skyscraper]

He’s not into her like she is him, that seems to be the way with all of her relationships which is sad, his family seem like real family people though, so I assume they’ll last now, but if we hadn’t had a pandemic I think they’d have gone their separate ways by now.

i think this as well. i found it interesting how when asked about marriage paddy said you can get engaged and be engaged for a few years. i also thought it was childish (and selfish) that she was the one who chose which questions they answered and when he tried to have a look she shooed him back. it was very immature of her to do that. it was their q&a so surely they should both have gotten to choose which questions were answered.

as for paddy saying there was a few hundered questions, it says a lot when she has several thousand followers..... surely with all those followers there would be many more questions? ive noticed in the last week or so that her followers on ig are skyrocketing. is she buying them i wonder? it makes sense (but its not right) because with her maternity allowance not going on for another six months, she needs to start building her following again to try and hopefully get some sponsored content in the future. i highly doubt she wants to go back to work after the baby is born (at any stage i mean) so she needs to do something if she wants to get a house and mortgage with paddy.....

i think all the talk of buying a house is out the window because with her not working getting a mortgage will be impossible especially with a baby. and in a recent vlog she mentioned something about them not starting building until christmas which seems bizarre to me. surely the developers want the properties built and sold so they can get their money in? i dunno. i think its a front for her saying this hoping people won't ask/will forget about it and she can brush it under the carpet without having to address it further?

paddy seems more naive and immature than she is. it will be interesting to see how their relationship will be when there is a baby in the mix. that will be the real test of their relationship.

What do you think about her Hospital Bag video?
Something seems off about it to me, I'm not sure what though idk.....

yes i thought this too. i don't think the reality of what having a baby will be like has really registered with her. even looking at her comments its kinda obvious that she doesn't know what she is in for. she said in one comment that getting 20-30 minutes to herself a few times a week won't be a problem....

now if she has help at home, yeah it might be, but i think she is underestimating just how demanding a baby will be of her and her time.

Yeah I’d say it could just be that she nervous about showing stuff she knows she’ll get comments about. Does she really think she’ll be sat watching Disney+ with tea lights on around her?

i have to say i had a good laugh at that. ive never heard of a maternity ward or delivery suite being 'ambient'. im open to correction though. anyway with covid would staff really let her (or paddy) run around putting tealights up around the place?

Lol can you imagine her sitting there watching Disney+, with the tea lights and that 5lb bag of jellys

yeah the jellies. they are long eaten now. and if they're not they'll be gone manky by the time she is in labour.

it annoys me so much that she buys so much cheap shit, cheap bath bombs, cheap knock off perfumes, dealz razors and Penney’s face wipes, why not invest in some good products.
then she gets such expensive PR.

i am convinced she sells most (if not all) of her pr. you never see her swatching it. she showed nars blushers, sigma palettes and lancome stuff over the last while and not one of them did she swatch.

 

[metalbeard]

Sure a kid is way more of a commitment than marriage or a mortgage so they’re stuck together for life now
I did feel from her videos and insta posts she wanted a proposal at Christmas/birthday/valentines especially since she’s been pregnant
but I get that feeling from her with any guy she has been with, she’s just one of those girls that is desperate for a ring, at least that the vibe I get from her

 

[Oohthedrama]

She can’t get the Chelsea boots she wants in her size……

“I won’t let it ruin my day”
All she does is shop. Where does she go that requires her to have so many clothes??

aisling, stop reading here.

 

[Pacho]

I could be completely wrong here & it's only an observation but having seen MM's video & Aisling's I nearly feel like Aisling was mentioning everything MM had & making sure people knew that MM isn't the norm. I know they made a video together before so I assume Aisling seen MMs video & it scared the sh*te out of her (as it did with many of us I'm sure)

The way Aisling praised the midwives, spoke about how they read & followed her birth plan entirely, having a 2nd degree tear but brushing over it saying it was sore but she got on with it, even the picture of the tea and toast and how it was the best tea and toast ever She nearly covered every point MM made about how traumatic/awful birth was & gave us the complete opposite side

 

[Scorching Skyscraper]

I don’t know many but I was just thinking I couldn’t place her dealz in her last upload

that dealz is on pearse street. if you google it and see the front, then look at the glimpes of it in her vlog, you'll recognise it

Hi Siog, sorry but could you tell us if ye went to school together in Dublin or was it somewhere else?

i know this isn't directed at me, but aisling went to loreto college in mullingar

 

[makeupmonster]

As I said before I’m close to one of her friends and she tells me everything! I moved years ago so this is my lifeline for the gossip. She’s in the same place as her parents. I don’t know why she’s mentioning €500k cos houses in Mullingar definitely do not cost that in that area she lives in. I’d say mammy and daddy helped with that purchase, because if they didn’t she would have kicked up a drink. Don’t worry mammy and daddy will still be on hand to mind baby Noah when Aisling decides to swan off and forget she has a baby.

 

[metalbeard]

She’s not a celeb, she’s a fucking nobody, who cares if she’s had a boy or girl, like stop dragging it out with your tiny group of followers
she really is delusional

 

[metalbeard]

Wow first day Penney’s is open and she’s in buying shite 🥱🥱🥱the world has literally changed in so many ways the last year yet she is still boring as fuck

 

[Oohthedrama]

I wish she was in a better place ED wise before bringing a baby into the world.
her history with men isn’t great, she needed a hell of a lot more therapy and a more stable relationship before becoming a mum but I don’t think that’s an option now baby is here!

 

[Oohthedrama]

She really has alot of issues, which if she doesnt get sorted this will project onto her infant growing up. I wonder if there us a lack of attachment as to why she has no issue with being away from him for what i consider lengthy periods for a 5 week old.

she now has a bullshit story about beating her eating disorder so she could be a mum like she’s always wanted to be
Girl you wanted kids if jimmy wanted kids, you would have had kids if John wanted kids, if paddy said he didn’t want them, you’d have been fine with that but paddy wants 6 ffs….
Her own BEST FRIENDS were unsure if she actually saw her future as a mum and throughout her pregnancy, and clearly since because it’s always at the forefront of her mind, her weight/food/exercise/doing what keeps paddy happy (going away with his friends for the birthday weekend and leaving your 5 week old newborn behind) is the priority, and I don’t care how that looks like “mum shaming” it’s not, 2021 will not take my right to have an opinion away just because my opinion doesn’t hit the woke targets.

 

[metalbeard]

She also doesn’t sleep in her bedroom she slept on the floor in the spare bedroom because she preferred it. Ok she got a bed last week but does that mean he was staying over and they’ve been sleeping on the floor??

their plan was to travel this year, no babies or houses, he was even toying with the idea of building when he was moving out, she got pregnant and they were looking at a new build near her, then at places to rent, she said the new builds were too far from him, they really are just making it up as they go along.

is she Southside and he’s Northside does anyone know?



is it true she had a fling with someone who worked there behind jimmy’s back?

Not sure about the fling thing I honestly don’t know anything juicy

I thought she lived in mullingar...but I could be wrong
Wasn’t the pharmacy she worked a before in mullingar? I dunno could be entirely making that up
I don’t know anything about him tbf
Look getting a house is a nightmare but if I was up the duff with me boyfriend I would either buy quickly because they’re literally running out of time, go rent or one of them move into the others parents
Not ideal I admit but at least they’re together with their baby

 

[Oohthedrama]

She seriously needs to update her room decor aswell, it’s like a tacky teenagers room from 2010

it’s........... the bomb dot com
So 2000!

 

[Oohthedrama]

I understand keeping children offline 100% but...I feel like posting your childs full name and date of birth is more of a privacy thing than their newborn face

I think it's more than identity privacy. As much as Melanie annoys me to the high heavens on so many things, I couldn't fault her for not (fully) sharing her baby online. 1) It's not smart to share baby & child photos with thousands (even hundreds) of complete strangers since it only takes ONE weirdo to use or share the photos for untoward purposes. 2) babies only stay babies for so long, and then they are toddlers and then in school and have friends and it isn't fair to have an online presence you didn't request. 3) Dad's do have a say and 4) not everyone that follows these ladies does it with the purest intentions - "hate followers" are surely a thing. Who wants to hear comments about their child's appearance, etc.? (all for the child to perhaps read at some point.) So, all things considered, I can't fault either of these ladies for keeping their babes faces private. And I accept that as mums they do want/need to include baby/mommy content since that's 90% of their lives at the moment. So, I'll give them all that. There's plenty to snark on the rest of the crazy things they do lol

she’s literally just said she understands all this 100%
but posting his name, date of birth, hospital, parents full name is pretty daMN dangerous.

I’m confused by this reply we’ve all agreed with this.

 

[Goopsun]

what style ring do you think she will go for?

This came to mind

 

[Pacho]

Bit jelly of his thigh gap.
She would look super cute with shoulder length hair.

I agree I think her hair would be lovely shoulder length like this