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PearlGate will NEVER get old 
Someone in the last thread was asking about The Eaton Foundation. I found this, which is the current incarnation of the Eaton grift foundation: https://www.tefwellbeing.uk/
Their charity accounts are here: https://register-of-charities.chari...y-search/-/charity-details/5044889/full-print
Interestingly, the "independent examiner" who ok'd their accounts in 2020, became a trustee in 2022. A guy who appears to be a local barber. JS also become a trustee in 2019 but resigned along with JT and two other trustees before the year end.
Sounds like TEF is as much of a grift as VF.
Their charity accounts are here: https://register-of-charities.chari...y-search/-/charity-details/5044889/full-print
Interestingly, the "independent examiner" who ok'd their accounts in 2020, became a trustee in 2022. A guy who appears to be a local barber. JS also become a trustee in 2019 but resigned along with JT and two other trustees before the year end.
Sounds like TEF is as much of a grift as VF.
Another of the trustees is a digital designer. Is it normal for charities to have random trustees? Jaimi would have been a 19yr old student at the time she was appointed.
Jess would undoubtedly come out with something about how it's BELITTLING and INFANTILISING to say Jaimi shouldn't have been a charity trustee at 19. I know there are efforts to encourage charities to appoint younger people as trustees, and that's a good thing - but the trustee still needs some kind of relevant experience. Jess thinks that Jaimi being an abuse survivor inherently qualifies her to work in VAWG/mental health fields at a senior level. But TEF was set up with older men in mind, and their experiences will be very different from those of a 19-year-old girl. Jess absolutely latched on to Jaimi at an early stage; again, even taking it as 100% true that nothing romantic happened until Jaimi was 21, it still isn't normal for a married mum in her mid to late 20s to be "best friends" with a teenager
I spent a few years as a trustee for a local mental health charity that was commissioned to provide some NHS services. As a lot of the charity's clients were students from the nearby unis they wanted someone with knowledge of higher ed, which was where I came in. To be honest I feel like I contributed the least to the board. They usually strive for a mixture of skills, e.g. in different aspects of finance, HR, and clinical governance, and often when a charity advertises for a new trustee they specify the gap they want to plug - "Applications from people with a legal background would be particularly welcome", that sort of thing. It looks like TEF's board was very small and not all that well balanced, and the relationship between Jess and Jaimi does look concerning - from TEF to Victim Focus, it seems that Jaimi has just followed Jess, which is a natural thing for a teenager to do but not something to encourage. Unfortunately Jess enjoys having fangirls too much to step back from a situation like that.
I don’t think JT has anything to do with TEF anymore. I’m not sure why her ex has never said anything about her- perhaps a legal agreement? She had obtained a big grant before she left and if I recall this wasn’t reflected in TEF activities in the last few years so I’m not sure what happened to it?
19 year old JS! Hilarious considering her post about teenage girls and adult men!
But Jaimi was 21 when they got together (at least publicly) so she was an adult, don't ask questions or you're treating her like a child/idiot/bimbo! Never mind she knows that even in the early-mid 20s a woman is still vulnerable to exploitation by an older partner cuz that's what Jess said about Johnny and Amber
No one's calling Jaimie a bimbo she seems smart....
Just calling Jess a groomer. And dating fans is a pattern. It does say something about a person that they seek someone who is into them in that fan, admirer style. The power dynamic is off when one person is a fan. It's a red flag to date fans and seek out people who are already somewhat loyal and smitten.
Just calling Jess a groomer. And dating fans is a pattern. It does say something about a person that they seek someone who is into them in that fan, admirer style. The power dynamic is off when one person is a fan. It's a red flag to date fans and seek out people who are already somewhat loyal and smitten.
I find their relationship really troubling. No matter what they say there is a massive power imbalance there. The fact that Jess is so vocal about young women being groomed by older men makes it more disturbing. So is she saying that women can’t groom and be abusers too? Oh no of course anyone who disagrees with Jess is abusive.
AlsoI can’t quite get my head around setting up a charity specifically for men’s mental health to then go on and be so anti men.
AlsoI can’t quite get my head around setting up a charity specifically for men’s mental health to then go on and be so anti men.
I reckon he's not said anything because he's onto the same grift she is and he doesn't want to be exposed.
She went from being all "men are ignored and opressed and they need help" to saying the exact same thing about women. It's a classic example of how she can completely shift who she is and what she thinks in line with whatever gets her the most attention at the time.
She basically says "if you think there's any kind of power imbalance or potential for grooming, you're saying my wife is too stupid to make her own decisions." Doesn't like it when people talk about (for instance) women choosing to be in porn or something or when MRA types say "my wife may be half my age but she's an adult making choices, why are you feminists so mad?" Then comes out with the same rhetoric herself
And of course likes to give the impression that people are constantly calling her and Jaimi stupid, bimbos, "the Kardashians", etc. to drive her narrative that they're being oppressed by bitter middle-aged feminists, another very misogynistic narrative
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This is weird. Who says "I'm excited for your future" about their wife? It's patronising and infantilising.
I don’t think he is. I don’t think he has anything to do with her anymore. TEF isn’t doing anywhere near as well as VF financially. I rarely see them asking for money and the staff are mostly volunteers. They do do what they say in helping local men and providing a support group for men with mental health problems. I get the impression JT used TEF as a convenient stepping stone to kickstart her own ‘empire’.
I think that Kardashian comment was just another made up one, as it's kinda a back handed compliment which she likes to pay her self. Like when she claimed someone said she was an amazing writer, but very young. Or some such crap. Because no matter what you think of them, the Kardashians are mega rich and world famous, which is the two things she values most.
She'd chew her arm off for a reality show where cameras followed her around filming her evey ridiculous thought.
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That post went on way longer than it ever needed to. We used to call this behaviour pissing all over someone's social media, because you're basically marking out your territory and ownership of someone. It's so over the top and a massive red flag.
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