Thanks to @empowered1 for the thread name.
This annoys me because everything on the slide, people that world in vwag already know all this intuitively or from years of actual experience. As someone said, this is preaching to the choir.
Did this org remove the pic of Jess speaking from their Twitter?
It got a lot of negative attention.
I can still see it
Did this org remove the pic of Jess speaking from their Twitter?
It got a lot of negative attention.
I'm a first responder so not qualified to discuss this in any real depth, but her assertion that BPD is trauma/PTSD has never sat well with me because I regularly see women with PDs who've been subject to traumatic experiences because of them.It feels like more people are seeing it.
Another annoyance I have is her various "rules for..." posts...(rules for finding a trauma informed therapist...rules for being trauma informed..)
Rules is an ugly word and the wrong word... A lot of trauma suffers are vulnerable and black and white assertions can feel comforting for us, like if we follow them well be safe.
There are no set rules for being trauma informed, and I think a list of rules about what is or isn't ok risks retruamising victims more.
Ironic also that the lists just reiterate her standing points eg trauma informed means you don't prescribe meds or give diagnoses.
Arguably, it's a lot more nuanced than that and you can give a diagnosis and also recognise trauma. Rare, but totally possible.
Jesus how f***ing stupid is she?? I'm sorry but to me it is infinitely more dangerous to attach a 'minus' label in terms of eating disorders, like you say it would literally validate the thinking of taking up less space, and give a target to attain 'minus' status. This post in itself just shows that she is entirely self obsessed---ie to suggest the whole world changes the way it describes a group of people just because she's one of them-- and really not very intelligent or perceptive. Literally nobody refers to size 10, 12, or 14 women as 'plus size'---very rarely 14 comes under it but it's usually size 18+. What a dick...
Interested in her ideas about weight and size inclusivity...here she is suggesting that instead of using 'plus size' to describe bigger bodies, we should call skinnier people 'minus size'
This from the women who promoted and chased thinness on Facebook (watching my legs disappear on this diet...).
I know she said that years ago but it's something some of us would still never do, try and encourage disordered eating and taking up less space by being skinny.
Not to boast and we all do say stupid stuff sometime but I just find her attitude to women's body's and size childish and underdeveloped.
She wouldn't because she would say, to echo her wife's view, that harm reduction strategies---like crime prevention---are 'victim blaming'. She wants women to engage in risk taking behaviour because firstly it enables her to keep banging on about her 'theories' and secondly, it keeps women dependent on her bullshit and therefore a captive audience and customer base for her merchandise and 'courses', and thereby also unwitting participants in her 'research'.I'm a first responder so not qualified to discuss this in any real depth, but her assertion that BPD is trauma/PTSD has never sat well with me because I regularly see women with PDs who've been subject to traumatic experiences because of them.
She's never, as far as I'm aware, discussed any harm reduction practices for women whose diagnoses may result in them engaging in more risk taking behaviour etc.
She's definitely not a size 14, no matter how much she tries to imply she is.....I found it quite comical that while she made a big deal of refusing to lose weight for her wedding, her wife made a point of showing off the results from her 'working out for [her] wedding dress'. Was JT's proclamation some sort of put down for Jaimi, belittling her efforts as 'buying into society's disgusting pressure on women'? I think it really was, considering she made a point of including 'change my body' in addition to lose weight, because that is exactly what Jaimi did.....This stinks of coercive control.Each to their own terminology so, crusade or not, you're stillfatplus-sized, Jess.
Sorry, Dr Jess.
I hereby christen this Slim Poppy Syndrome (seeing as she was banging on about tall poppy syndrome a little while ago).She's definitely not a size 14, no matter how much she tries to imply she is.....I found it quite comical that while she made a big deal of refusing to lose weight for her wedding, her wife made a point of showing off the results from her 'working out for [her] wedding dress'. Was JT's proclamation some sort of put down for Jaimi, belittling her efforts as 'buying into society's disgusting pressure on women'? I think it really was, considering she made a point of including 'change my body' in addition to lose weight, because that is exactly what Jaimi did.....This stinks of coercive control.
' As a side note, I’m also so so proud of myself for not attempting to lose weight or change my body for my wedding day. The pressure to drop pounds before you get married is absolutely disgusting'.
I wondered the same thing. It's possible Jess feels insecure next to Jaimi and this was her way of trying to put Jaimi in her place, by insinuating that she's not as politically insightful and aware as Jess.She's definitely not a size 14, no matter how much she tries to imply she is.....I found it quite comical that while she made a big deal of refusing to lose weight for her wedding, her wife made a point of showing off the results from her 'working out for [her] wedding dress'. Was JT's proclamation some sort of put down for Jaimi, belittling her efforts as 'buying into society's disgusting pressure on women'? I think it really was, considering she made a point of including 'change my body' in addition to lose weight, because that is exactly what Jaimi did.....
The link between developmental trauma (repeated, protracted, beginning in childhood) and the pattern of difficulties known as BPD/EUPD is well documented. It's not controversial to see those difficulties as a manifestation of trauma, which is why Jessica's insistence that she is a radical lone voice is so puzzling. Risk-taking behaviours make a lot of sense in the context of trauma (and not necessarily complex trauma either - studies of military veterans with PTSD show they also exhibit these behaviours). The reasons will vary from person to person and should be explored sensitively with them as part of their therapy, but there are some common patterns. I'm most familiar with risk-taking in young people, which often takes place because the child is used to living in chaotic and often dangerous situations where they are continually on edge, primed to fight or flight. It might seem as though it would be a relief to take them from that environment and put them somewhere safe, but in practice they can find it frightening and overwhelming. When you are in a dangerous situation, all your energy is directed to keeping yourself safe; you don't have time to reflect on what has happened to you. In a calmer environment, when your body and brain can finally relax, the awareness and the memories start to rush in. Risk-taking becomes a paradoxical way of pushing that awareness away - these young people feel safest in situations where there is no time to think or feel, only react. Another common thing is risk-taking driven by self-loathing. In these cases it's often accompanied by self-harm and high levels of suicidality - the child believes they deserve the bad things that have happened to them, that bad things will keep happening to them ad infinitum, and that they are powerless to stop it. Risk-taking becomes part of a self-fulfilling prophecy. The frustrating thing about the high-profile cases of child sexual exploitation was that police were dismissing vulnerable girls as making "lifestyle choices" because they kept going back to their abusers, without any apparent insight into the fact that this can be driven by pure self-hatred and the fact that the child isn't capable of imagining a different reality for themselves. You can only choose to keep yourself safe if you believe safety is an option for you, after all. Finally there is the link between developmental trauma, impulsivity, and insecure attachment, which all lead to increased risk-taking. Growing up with neglect and abuse does take a cognitive toll on the child.I'm a first responder so not qualified to discuss this in any real depth, but her assertion that BPD is trauma/PTSD has never sat well with me because I regularly see women with PDs who've been subject to traumatic experiences because of them.
She's never, as far as I'm aware, discussed any harm reduction practices for women whose diagnoses may result in them engaging in more risk taking behaviour etc.