Just found this thread and am hoping for some advice please. I'm desperate for a dog, I've always wanted one but have never been able to until now. We have a kitten so I feel the time is right whilst the cat is young, firstly before they get 'set in their ways' and also to get any kitten/dog/puppy madness all over at once. My 18 year old daughter is scared of a family dog that isn't properly trained/exercised or neutered and behaves appallingly because of this, despite not being scared of any other dogs. I have tried to explain that not all dogs are like this crazy dog, that I research the right breed for us, that the dog will be neutered, it will be trained both at home & at classes plus exercised daily to avoid all the things our family have done wrong with their dog. I do not want a dog that I cannot control & properly care for. I am struggling to ask her to try & understand that not all dogs behave that way (though she's been around other dogs all her life & us aware of this) Has anyone experienced similar? Any ideas on how we can move forward from this? The kitten was brought for her as she very much missed our old cat we lost, I feel like I've done that for her, yet she won't even try to meet me halfway? Sorry for the long post, thank you.