Does anyone else dread going out?

I'm a total home bird, I don't drink or smoke so never been on to pubs clubs etc. I'm quite happy staying in.

I dread going out because of two reasons: 1. I'm really not that social a person, I prefer being at home with my partner and maybe one or two good friends rather than being in a big group in a club. 2. Alcohol makes me depressed the next day so i have to be careful not to get trollied if I go out.

I’ve been out to clubs around seven times in total in my twenties. It’s not just me- I’d find the music too loud, hated being seen as meat and just want to go home by 12 instead of staying out dancing all night. I’d go just because I wanted to spend time with my friends.

Just be honest and say no if you don’t want to go.

I love nothing more than a Saturday night in with a bottle of wine watching cheesy Saturday night telly with my partner. Finish the night off with a takeaway. Bliss.