He last text me Wednesday morning. I posted a screenshot earlier of what he said which was a chatty nice message. I replied and it was delivered but never received a response so text again. Everything else has been undelivered.
Thank you..just normally we’ve texted every day but last couple days it’s been me starting the convo (I do know he’s very busy) he didn’t reply to my last message about 2pm yesterday xx
Me too, so sorry xxx
Why do they do this..!?Mr Perfect arranged a date for Friday but I haven't heard from him in two days. Back to the drawing board.
ah but I also didn’t mention that she’s been responsible for sending me some of the rudest most disrespectful messages that I’ve ever come across… trying to explain to me why me and him didn’t work out… and bad mouthing me to my friends (luckily they’ve even said their loyalties are with me). So really she deserves everything she gets!I have to say I think you’re being a little unfair on this girl - I would say that you could slate her all the live long day if she knew that your ex had a gf, but you’ve already stated she didn’t.
She’s just fallen for him like you did, but isn’t even in the fortunate position you are to realise she’s picked a dud who is a cheating arsehole. Cut her some slack -it’s likely she’s going to find out the hard way like you did.
Other than that enjoy your holiday!
EwwwwWas just on a random bloggers page and saw that he had posted some smutty comment on a photo....amazing how quick you can realise how much of a total twat someone is very quickly
Did she know that he was in a relationship?
Alas just not my "best friend" of 25 years. Telling me stuff like oh you'll find the one and other cliché shit is NOT HELPFUL lol
Don’t bow out I’m not on the apps, never taken a selfie in my life so no chance
No such thing as too soon once you’re comfortable with the timeline yourself! I’m no help on the contact front (as I’m so militant about it) but others will tell you not to overthink it so…..don’t overthink itRight, I'd be the very one to tell others on this thread to calm down and not over think stuff but here it goes.
Mr Perfect messaged me last night, we only exchanged a few messages. And when the chat was over he was still online for ages afterwards.
He hasn't messaged today ...yet, which is fine.
But what's everyone's attitude when it comes to messaging. What do you all expect?
Also after a first date when they have asked to see you again, when would you expect them to bring that up again.
Also when is it too soon to sleep with someone...he's so hot
Yeah but some things are a bit out there. Ignoring people etc. Don't tell your therapist struck meIt’s not about becoming a stepford wife
Thank you. I'm the same I shared alot with him because I felt that I could and he made me feel safe but yeah the last week was just silence and I didn't understand what changed. I was accepting of his time with his kids and never wanted that to change because I knew they'd always be priority as they should. I only have a few friends but most of then were too busy or whatever. I probably should have stayed in and just allowed myself to cry last night. Had a good cry driving home earlier and I'm just frustrated and feeling lost againI know exactly how you feel, I take things to heart badly too. The last guy really effected me to the point I broke down at work several times and I've never done that! Everything was fine with him one minute then the next he was pulling away. Long story short first of all he blamed me saying I couldn't handle him being busy with work and it wasn't fair to me (no problem with someone being busy, I do however have a problem with someone when they're doing the slow fade with you and its blantley obvious) then the next message he said he doesn't have time for a relationship and we both want different things. That really broke me because I let my guard down with him and told him some things I only share when I'm comfortable with someone..really believed he was differentI really hope you're okay
Sweet lord how insensitive am IIt's too soon for the 'stood up' joke
Video call me during the night out
I'm so sorry!