Tbh the cuddles thing would have immediately put me off and looks like he was hoping for stuff to get physical from the off. He’s saved you the bother of putting on makeup and getting ready; I’d count that as a blessing.Ugh I hate menlike why can they not just stick to the original plan
Update: he says oh well, if you don’t wanna go for drinks then, we’ll leave it off
I've met a guy out and about, we clicked, got chatting on socials, and then he told me he was married. I wish he was single but he's not, and tbh if he's not faithful to his wife, he is unlikely to be faithful to me. To be honest, you and the wife both deserve better
I never think it’s a good idea or necessary to talk about past relationships tbh but if he jumps ship now then he’s probably not worth it.Hi guys, back for my hinge dating advice
been chatting to this lad who I thought seemed lovely, my opinion hasn’t changed yet, he did ask me on a date, supposed to go on Monday!
now, we were chatting about our past relationships..he talked about his then I spoke about mine. I said before it , “Jesus I dunno if ya wanna know about mine now tbh because ya might ghost me” to which he says “well I’ve shared my madness you might as well tell me all about yours.”
So away I went… then he said “okay I’m not gonna lie. This is a lot to take in. I’m gonna need time to process this”
My ex was an alcoholic, I was engaged and that was the reason we broke up. Long story short. He’s going to ghost me isn’t he
If they have group pics I always message asking if the fittest one is single
It's sooo unattractive when men (I assume some women do it too) start their bio by complaining about how hard done by they've been on dating apps. I mean...Read the room! Major incel vibes!
It can seem that everyone is having more luck than you, or things are easy and better for others. It can be really hard not to, but try not to compare with others. Often there’s a different story behind closed doors. I can guarantee this man would have made you miserable in time, because you were on different pages. He wouldn’t have said those things if he didn’t want to communicate those things to you. He said it, you listened and you walked. You should commend yourself for seeing the mismatch with intentions. It’s hard when someone, in all other respects, seems lovely. That’s what drives doubt, and makes us overlook the glaring things they’ve told us. You can now go and find someone who is open to the same future as you. It is infinitely better to be happy and alone, than miserable with the wrong person. Freeing yourself to find the right man is the smart move. Keep your chin up and know that better things are in store for you
What app is that?For anyone looking for "intelligent" conversation with a "mature" 50 year old!
And only 5 ft 9". How dare he?
Don’t take it personally. There could be a number of reasons why he’s slow fading/disappeared -met someone else, has a gf, etc etc. it just happened to be around the time he may have seen you out. Who even cares! He seems flighty and also saved you the effort of a date. He is no one to you, so his opinions and actions are irrelevant. New people await.I’m feeling very blue.
I was speaking with a guy and all it seemed ok, he added me on instagram and we chatted a lot on there, he ALWAYS reacted to my photos and stories. We had a date arranged for tonight.
the other day he messaged me to say he had seen me out and about in my car and ever since he’s just gone really quiet and now he’s cancelled our date.
He clearly saw me in person and went off meI’m feeling completely rubbish about myself now!
Hope you are all doing ok x
Think I was just having a bit of a wobble but I'm gonna try and relax!This is a tricky one as technically you’re not together in that he’s not really doing anything wrong here unless you’ve already had the conversation that you’re only dating each other?
I think that just about sums it up. Always looking for the next thing and a disposable culture, rather than appreciating a good thing and taking the time to invest in someone
