I think the guy being new and the woman being completely unarsed, was to cover that small matterI've not been married yet (ahem, looking at you boyfriend...), but don't they do this whole thing prior to the ceremony where they take each of you off to a room to check you've not been coerced and ask a load of questions? I'm sure no one would let a surprise wedding where one half of the couple had no idea it was happening take place like this![]()