I agree with all of you about how gross it is to be selling merch, going on tour, etc when her babies are in the NICU. But I also think one of the reasons she is doing it is because she is feeling a lot of pressure being the sole earner for her 3 children, her husband, and most likely a lot of the rest of her family too. All the while, Erik makes absolutely no effort. That guy loves coasting along on her money. He couldn't have been making a lot of money throughout the years from the occasional acting gig. He probably had some other job before he met her, which he promptly quit when they got together. The guy acts like he won the lottery buying designer clothes, a car, paying off his student loans, etc. It's just gross all around.