It’s all just competing isn’t it?Her wee babies now even one yet, has bronchitis and is sleeping in a cot in another roomthat’s mental to me. It seems her whole obsession with the baby’s sleeping is more to do with her selfish needs and not what’s best for her wee girl.
How well they sleep, how much they eat, how quickly they hit milestones, what baby gear you have…
It’s a first time mum thing with some, generally those who have no identity outside of parenting. It’s awful because it really knocks those whose confidence is low to see people showing off. Childhood’s a marathon, not a sprint. Come starting school nobody’s going to know or care (not that they do now) who slept through, when.
Unless they still aren’t. I’ve had one of those. I cared come starting school when he still wasn’t sleeping