I buy for our 3 children, one Auntie and her son (as she insists on still doing presents), a few food/drink presents plus money/gift card for my mum and the in-laws and money for nieces and nephews (all adults). I find giving money to the nieces and nephews a bit stupid as then my kids are given the same back in money, so now I say you give yours the money from us and I’ll give mine the money from you!
I think Christmas was better when all the kids were young and you could actually give presents. I find it boring just giving money/gift cards but that’s what they all say they prefer.
I have one teenager and two adult kids and it’s a struggle to buy them stuff now and a struggle to find things for the stocking for the boys but they all still insist on having the stocking and the presents!
Husband and I don’t buy for each other.
Unpopular opinion but I don’t even like Christmas!