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She just seems like quite a sad individual to me. Perhaps she needs to find someone more on her wavelength so that she won’t constantly feel ‘flat’ or the need to spontaneous things to fill a void?
 
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Esme

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Yeah we’re all girls here, we know what it’s like to go to your mates and tell them how shit our boyfriends are etc and then get back with them the next day. Same principle here, no one’s going to judge!

I really just think she doesn’t want to be with him but daren’t take the leap to fully break up with him.
Absolutely. If she was honest about what happened it would surely resonate with a lot of people.

I still think it has to do with buying a house - while they rented perhaps she had doubts but kept telling herself once they achieved the goal of buying (which was a huge deal to her) that things would improve. When they didn’t (because what would change other than the house was legally theirs) she broke it off. Went on the big single girls night out but once that excitement died down, maybe she realised it was better to be with him after all. It’s sad if she is just settling. It’s unfair on both of them. And it always seems when people do settle, or they break up and get back together, that inevitably further down the line the relationship will end anyway because it wasn’t right.
 
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What on earth… I can’t even be bothered to read the caption. This definitely belongs on the instagram account girlswithirrelevantcaptions. What’s showing your side boob got to do with anything?

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I’m still really confused! If you have to put that much thought into whether you should be with someone or not maybe that’s because you shouldn’t? IMO
 
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Was wondering if there was a thread and here it is!

What is her purpose as a creator? Does she work and do IG stuff on the side? She's literally dull AF, I'm so confused.
 
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LOVE!! her new hair. Massive improvement!
I don’t like it, honestly. Looks somehow unnatural, as did all the hair colours in her latest stories. Maybe it will look better washed out a bit.

I think an ashy blonde, or sth like bronde? would work better for her.
 
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xits_jjx

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Did anyone read her new blog post? It felt a bit TL;DR for me so I read some not all. I feel like she’s really beating around the bush re: her relationship status

This drive to be independent, to have absolute, dictatorial control of my life and my mood acts both as a protective superpower and as self-restricting blinkers. To be in love, I have to accept that I will at times be disappointed - as I too will disappoint in return. Perhaps to invite these disappointments is a mistake and a failure on my part to take care of myself. It could also be the gateway to a more flexible, honest, forgiving form of relationship. Either way: I don’t know. But the confusion is all part of the process, both of my wider life and of my desire to love.
 
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who3who

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Sometimes you need the prospect of losing someone to realise *SHIT - what am i doing?!* aha
 
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xits_jjx

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Right? I’d love to be able to afford a house and a fixer-upper at that 😅 Painting the walls is the easiest job of all
 
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BillieR

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Yeah. I mean I'm not saying "jeez she should've had that whole house done by now!" And i don't want to ignore the fact she bought up the cost implications of renovations either
... but she already has the tin of primer and has primed 5 6ths of the doors already.

I get struggling on colours but she could've done some test patches or gone for something neutral for now if she knows she's gonna take a whole year to decide.

Anyway I'm moaning for the sake of moaning now because she's literally harming nobody 😂
 
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