Chit Chat #26

[Peaches_xox]

The worst as well is working from home and having people around you. There’s a girl at work and I HATE her. I’ve known her for about 10 years we’ve worked at old places together. Mr Peaches knows I hate her, I bitch about her most days, but she’ll ring and I’ll be like ‘hi babe yeah so blah blah blah’ and when I hang the phone up mr peaches is like you fucking fake bitch

 

[strawb]

i've just finished work and about to go meet my friend for a coffee. i'm soooo not in the mood especially because the weather is shit, i feel awful and i have to go straight to the pub quiz afterwards. can't wait to get into bed and sleep in tomorrow

then around 1 pm tomorrow i have to go to a fitting because on tuesday i have a photoshoot with the wedding agency i work for, photos of the 3 of us for our website, social media, brochures, etc. i've been feeling literally sick to my stomach about this whole thing and especially about the fitting tomorrow because the stylist keeps assuming we are all the same size?!?! how rude is that just give me a black suit and leave me alone

 

[make-mine-whiskey]

Can’t relate to meetings as I’m a loner that works alone

Lol same

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Omg there is an awesome administrator job for a new media company in my area that I just applied for I'm so excited lol

God I need to get out of this job

 

[coconochanel]

Morning all, Sorry you are feeling like that @watermelon sugar depression is terrible and makes you feel all kinds of things BUT one thing I can tell you is NO ONE hates you or is judging you, most people are so wrapped up in themselves they wont think twice about a stranger etc and on here NONE OF US hates you I think you are fab and always bring fun and penises to the chat. The thread isn't the same when you don't post (no offence everyone)

 

[Rxt156]

So me and my BF were talking baby names (not pregnant or planning just convo) and he’s vetoed like nearly all of mine

I had to bin sooo many names because the fella said noooo. I also said no to his names so I didn’t feel so bad after that did you agree on any

 

[Peaches_xox]

@watermelon sugar i can relate to feeling like everybody thinks you’re boring and nobody likes you etc. I’ve been feeling really really down this last few weeks for similar issues and feeling like I have no friends and nothing to bring to the table but I can assure you we don’t think you’re boring here and it’s very obvious when you are missing. I hope you start to feel better soon

My first drink of the day is a cup of tea always. 2 sugars with milk.

Shower - I actually face both ways! I stand facing the water for the most part and then to wash my hair I have my back to it!

 

[Peaches_xox]

ARGH I need to moan

Spoiler: Ranting

I haven’t been into work in two weeks and I have a new role and a new team and I’m trying to be taken seriously. All they want is for me to show up on a Tuesday. Anyway mr peaches has told me I can’t go to work tomorrow cos he has to back and forth to his mums and obviously little peaches has chicken pox so no school. I’m not sure why if one of us works and one of us doesn’t why childcare should fall on the working person?????

Anyway I’m really embarrassed to email and say oh btw I’m not coming in for a 3rd week in a row send help!

 

[BelleAmie]

@Peaches_xox

Spoiler: .

at the risk of sounding dramatic, I’m not sure I’d even be here without my anti depressants - I was in a really bad place before and whilst I am still an an anxious mess most of the time, I’m so much better then I would be without them. They’re not for everyone but maybe have a chat with your gp and start on the lowest possible dose to help you while you’re going through therapy. Sending you loads of love x

 

[Betty701]

I also have chocolate every day it’s my fave thing and I love sweets too. Donuts are also high on the list of my favourite foods too. To be fair I have lots of food treats I workout quite a bit so I don’t like to deny any type of foods. It seems to work quite well for me I tried to give up chocolate once for lent and I became obsessed with it.

 

[WilmaHun]

@WilmaHun @xx3221 Thank you both so much for responding. I have been having a mini anxiety attack since the evening. Forced myself to sleep and then now I’m awake nervous. I feel like I communicated my boundaries but at the same time, I feel like I’m being such a drag and a nag because first time having sex should be great and happy, but I had to bring up such talks. The date went really well outside of it. So, I will try to not go into overdrive. I am really scared if I fucked up. I will try and decompress the next two days or so and hopefully, my anxiety will go down. Thank you again for talking to me.
I’m already 26. I am still shit at socializing. I am so scared if my anxiety might not allow me to find my special someone. I hate it so much.

don’t allow your age to make you feel pressured like you need to be doing something now. I am also 26, and I can relate to the feeling that I’m not where I’m supposed to be, but someone whose opinion really matters to me once told me that I should just trust the timing of my own life, just because some people are already doing certain things doesn’t mean I should be too. We all have our own paths to follow and things will happen when they’re supposed to. I am also shit at socialising, anxiety gets to me too. But don’t allow it to consume you. Your special person will come along, and it may just be when you least expect it

 

[Quietpeony]

@Peaches_xox if anyone will think that because of your sister, they are the ones who need a therapist! It’s 2022, MH should not be a taboo. I’d say if you start medication start it on a low dose and ensure you report the outcome to your gp/ therapist on a regular basis.

Also with regards to your bf you will have to have some honest chats with him. I know men are trained from birth that feelings don’t exist but if he is going to be your life partner he needs to be a good listener at the bare minimum. My bf is a lot more understanding after he attended a therapy session with me at the height of my panic attacks. Before that he would always claim there’s no such thing as serious anxiety (men are twats!) but after coming to that session he stopped and actually checked in on me on that front more often.

Hope you can feel more like yourself soon

 

[Phoenix Lazarus]

I like this one for some reason

 

[Rxt156]

People are twats. Particularly MEN and women with responsibility and a bit of power. My boss (soon to be ex boss hehe ) hates women and it is so obvious at work. Favours the men and is frosty with women about everything. F yoouuuuuu

On a brighter note …..
Went shopping. Baby slept the whole time thank gooodness. Went to the loo, out comes an old lady so I go in. She left THE SINGLE BIGGEST POO I HAVE EVER SEEN. Hoooweee that came out of an old lady I’ll never know. She was sat outside when I left and I gave her the look. I have seen your poo lady!!! Wtf

 

[watermelon sugar]

I’d at least call them chicken nix

 

[Peaches_xox]

On cakes, obviously my fav cake is the big light

 

[watermelon sugar]

Nah it’s not crazy at all. I have acne and at my time of the month the right side of my face just shoots up a load of spots and I feel anxious about it every month. It’s only recently where I’ve started feeling better about them. Before I was pregnant they were literally all over my face and I used to cry and cry and cry about how ugly I was cos of my spots 🥲 I’d refuse to go anywhere or be seen with no make up on. Spots really can make you feel super shit about yourself. Right now I’m on and my spots are AWFUL. I ask my bf all the time how he’s with me cos the spots are so bad 🥲 I say to him you can do much better than me I’m so ugly and he’s just like ‘you’re not even spotty’ and I’m like ‘I can literally see about a million spots on my face why you lying?’

 

[Rxt156]

I sleep on the left. I read somewhere that men should sleep closest to the door. My fella does!! I am furthest from the door so he will get eaten first when the monsters come in

 

[Peaches_xox]

Omg is Mr Wilma 5 years old his mum is the same as mr peaches mum. I’ve said before whenever he’s unwell she gets some special soup delivered to our house for him proper gives me the ick.

I’ve got my first proper therapy session today and I’m well nervous I dunno what to expect!!

 

[watermelon sugar]

Omg my mil has just rang and said ‘are you home I’ll be there in 2 mins for a brew’ and I literally put the phone down and she knocked on the door

 

[watermelon sugar]

my fave McFlurry is back