Chelsea Pateman

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I've just scrolled back on Chelsea page.. Matt was diagnosed in October 2020... 4 1/2 years he fought it..... the boys would of been about 2 1/2 and the older boy about 14 and Chelsea only about 27... not sure how old Matt is... early 40's? So sad they've had so much to deal with so young . Chelsea a widow at 31 .. 😔😔
 
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I've just scrolled back on Chelsea page.. Matt was diagnosed in October 2020... 4 1/2 years he fought it..... the boys would of been about 2 1/2 and the older boy about 14 and Chelsea only about 27... not sure how old Matt is... early 40's? So sad they've had so much to deal with so young . Chelsea a widow at 31 .. 😔😔

makes it even more sad right :(
 
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I've just scrolled back on Chelsea page.. Matt was diagnosed in October 2020... 4 1/2 years he fought it..... the boys would of been about 2 1/2 and the older boy about 14 and Chelsea only about 27... not sure how old Matt is... early 40's? So sad they've had so much to deal with so young . Chelsea a widow at 31 .. 😔😔
Feels like two minutes ago she was updating about his sinus issues 😔
I know, so young x
 
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If you type in Matts name in Facebook there is a just giving page set up for Chelsea and the boys.
 
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God I wish I had a contact at United to get them those tickets….
They probably wouldn’t do anything to help, have you seen how they’ve treated that poor family who wanted to continue to use their dead father’s season ticket to help continue his love of watching United and still feel connected to him? 😢
 
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Unpopular opinion.
awful to what’s she’s going through and her boys too.
But I don’t get the pouting and full face of make up.
 
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Unpopular opinion.
awful to what’s she’s going through and her boys too.
But I don’t get the pouting and full face of make up.
Probably to try and keep things normal for the boys, well as normal as she can considering the circumstances. Must be awful at the momemt when she probably wants to just curl up in bed. There are plenty of people online to critique but Chelsea isn't one.
 
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I agree!!! -
Probably to try and keep things normal for the boys, well as normal as she can considering the circumstances. Must be awful at the momemt when she probably wants to just curl up in bed. There are plenty of people online to critique but Chelsea isn't one.


I totally agree. Makes them a low life person to criticise her
 
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In my opinion she’s painting on a brave face, I get it. Put your make up on and smile though the pain. There is no set way to grieve. She’s been bloody brilliant through all of this and I’ve nothing but respect for her. Hope she’s ok ♥
 
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I’ve always felt Chelsea reads her thread on tattle and hoped she was reading the well wishes we were all sending her. She’s probably read the post tonight criticising her pose/pout and made the decision just to delete insta. I can’t blame her. She’s probably trying to deal with things her own way and doesn’t need pulling apart for every little thing.

While it may not be what any of us would choose to do (wear make up, pose etc) it’s her journey now. She’s been going through this with Matt for years now and has to find her own way to keep going. If putting make up on and taking a silly selfie with the boys makes her feel better, even for a minute, she should be able to do it without being judged. She’d be pulled apart if she posted pictures of her crying too no doubt.
 
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Aw I'm so sad if chelsea has read that 1 negative comment and deleted her Insta 😢
Hopefully she's just gone private for a bit till she's got her head round things a bit more.
 
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