Chelsea Pateman

[Scullybob]

I love Chelsea's mothering style. Those boys mean the world to her, she engages so well with them, they're so,so loved and such happy little boys. I couldn't care less if she's a size 8 or a size 28. She lost weight to get healthy for ivf and now the twins are here her main priority is them, not being a certain size and not wearing a face full of make up and taking pouty selfies for the gram. I don't find her content boring at all, I find it charming and delightful, she lets them get mucky, she's not obsessed with how her house looks, she makes proper food and they get a full varied diet. Give the girl a break, let's not bring her down for spending money on food or for gaining weight

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

Unpopular opinion.
awful to what’s she’s going through and her boys too.
But I don’t get the pouting and full face of make up.

God forbid a young mum goes through one of the worst things a human being could go through and decides to put her face on.

Maybe she’s been crying a lot and is trying to look a bit more like herself for the sake of her two young kids who’ve just lost their daddy?

Maybe she’s looking in the mirror and not recognising herself because the last few years have taken a vicious toll on her and she’s tried to make herself feel a bit better.

Maybe she just needs a small win like getting out of bed, getting dressed and getting herself out for the day.

and as for taking photos… maybe she’s trying to take as many photos as she can because right now that’s all those kids have left of their daddy and one day it’ll be all they have left of Chelsea.

 

[ChubClubThug]

He must be in agony the poor sod. It's such a rare form too so they literally have no idea what to expect or know what's going to happen those poor boys. His heart must be aching that he's being pulled away from his family like this. It's just so wrong. Then you've got the scum of the earth moaning and faffing over aff links and a few pence They can all fuck off. I hope all these hunz are supportive of Chelsea, like she has been for them all these years!

 

[Oneforthemoney]

Think her priorities are different, which even she says. She looks completely normal, and she's had twins not even 2 years ago.

 

[honey&lemon]

I’ve always felt Chelsea reads her thread on tattle and hoped she was reading the well wishes we were all sending her. She’s probably read the post tonight criticising her pose/pout and made the decision just to delete insta. I can’t blame her. She’s probably trying to deal with things her own way and doesn’t need pulling apart for every little thing.

While it may not be what any of us would choose to do (wear make up, pose etc) it’s her journey now. She’s been going through this with Matt for years now and has to find her own way to keep going. If putting make up on and taking a silly selfie with the boys makes her feel better, even for a minute, she should be able to do it without being judged. She’d be pulled apart if she posted pictures of her crying too no doubt.

 

[Kaye1976]

I love Chelsea's mothering style. Those boys mean the world to her, she engages so well with them, they're so,so loved and such happy little boys. I couldn't care less if she's a size 8 or a size 28. She lost weight to get healthy for ivf and now the twins are here her main priority is them, not being a certain size and not wearing a face full of make up and taking pouty selfies for the gram. I don't find her content boring at all, I find it charming and delightful, she lets them get mucky, she's not obsessed with how her house looks, she makes proper food and they get a full varied diet. Give the girl a break, let's not bring her down for spending money on food or for gaining weight

Couldn’t agree more She lets them be adventurous and not worry at all about getting hands and clothes dirty.

 

[ChubClubThug]

I don't think anyone has to worry about Chelsea not being aware of diversity and the world in general. She bought her boys prams, a black doll and a white doll to play with a long time ago. Deffo raising them right

 

[Noodle99]

I absolutely love Chelsea. I'd much rather follow her than the likes of Fopperholic!

 

[ChubClubThug]

Fair play Matt you've put up one hell of a fight for your family

 

[ChubClubThug]

The picture of her husband and those boys made me cry, he looks ever so poorly I never used to think much of her but gosh I hope he pulls through and gets to see his boys grow.

He is looking very unwell, hopefully he'll get better with the treatment awful for them. She isn't a beggy insta mum, never does these stupid ads etc expecting someone else to pay her bills. She just looks after her kids and goes to work, as he does. Absolutely awful situation

 

[Eye_roll_central]

Natural mother bringing up her little boys the best way! Love seeing her engage naturally with those boys and letting them be kids! Too many fake mothers on insta and she is a breath of fresh air! Her number one priority is those boys happiness and she puts them first! She also doesn’t pretend it’s all perfect all the time, she’s real

 

[Scullybob]

I was surprised too. She put this up and I couldn’t believe how different she actually looks.

She looks a perfectly normal size to me.

 

[Boogs]

Also her husband was sick for a long time. She’s had a long time to practice acting as normally as possible for her kids. She’s been extraordinarily strong for so long, I hope she has a strong support network.

 

[Dontmissmuch]

I love Chelsea's mothering style. Those boys mean the world to her, she engages so well with them, they're so,so loved and such happy little boys. I couldn't care less if she's a size 8 or a size 28. She lost weight to get healthy for ivf and now the twins are here her main priority is them, not being a certain size and not wearing a face full of make up and taking pouty selfies for the gram. I don't find her content boring at all, I find it charming and delightful, she lets them get mucky, she's not obsessed with how her house looks, she makes proper food and they get a full varied diet. Give the girl a break, let's not bring her down for spending money on food or for gaining weight

Absolutely love Chelsea, she’s a great mum, so down to earth and doesn’t take the piss with ads. Seems like a really good, kind person.

Couldn’t agree more She lets them be adventurous and not worry at all about getting hands and clothes dirty.

I have to agree with you ladies.. she's a fantastic mother keeping it real and looks a pretty normal size to me too. I didn't follow her before the boys so can't comment on what she was like before but she sure seems to have her priorities in the right order... her boys are a joy to watch and she sounds like she went through tough time to get them. Having had similar fertility issues myself I can relate

 

[Dontmissmuch]

Could I make a suggestion....... could Chelsea's thread be moved to the 'rave' section ?

 

[Shivers]

Don’t know if Chelsea reads here, especially at a time like this, but if she does stumble across this please know everyone on this site has always said what a lovely family you are and we will all be routing for your hubby and your family to pull through this xx

 

[HopeThatHelps]

Now this woman has 109k followers. She has NOT once put anything up about BLM. That blackout tuesday she didnt post anything at all and came on next day saying she had a day off......
From the woman who puts up constant stories. That one day you dont post anything? Hmmmm.....just saying. She coulda used her audience to help raise awareness. Her (unusual) silence speaks volumes...

I personally don’t think these instagrammers can win regardless of what they do. I have seen people getting slated for posting about BLM and that they’re ‘jumping on the bandwagon’ and then slated if they don’t post anything as well. Some people are generally worried they don’t know what to say about it, wether or not they say the right or wrong thing. Just because people don’t post, for any reason, doesn’t mean they aren’t reading up and educating themselves.

 

[yelnats]

I was surprised too. She put this up and I couldn’t believe how different she actually looks.

I think she looks nice? Yes she’s put weight on from her time hop photos but don’t forget those are from years ago and she’s had twin babies since then..

 

[TheWitchIsBack]

Absolutely love Chelsea, she’s a great mum, so down to earth and doesn’t take the piss with ads. Seems like a really good, kind person.

 

[Itsmethatlikesamoan]

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Just Giving page for Matt. Chelsea didn't set it up and isn't pushing it all, which is really honourable of her.

I would much rather donate to Matt, Chelsea and their lovely family, than the likes of Jack Towers or any of the begs on TT…
What this family is going through must be hell on earth.. Matt already has enough on his plate just trying to fight this bloody awful disease without having to worry about financial difficulties as well…