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[JLXRD]

Agree @Bezolabub, I want to be positive for 2021 too! I’m trying to be cautious though with my optimism.

I like the journaling idea, I have just bought a 2021 planner - I thought of it as a show of faith to the universe of my hopes for 2021, hoping my faith gets rewarded with a bit less of a shot show and a year where I might actually need a planner again

 

[DCICassieStuart]

Just keeping my fingers crossed for 2021. I'm afraid I'll jinx thing by saying that "Whatever happens, it can't be as bad as this year"

 

[watermelon sugar]

I'm feeling miserable tonight guys. I hope 2021 is better. It's been the best year having my boy but the worst at the same time. It's been hard. Feeling very sorry for myself tonight Glad I've got Tattle though


It's weird how the same usernames you see all time on these threads, especially the off topic ones, seem like better friends than you actually have in real life. (Or maybe that's just me ha? I've got tit friends )

 

[DCICassieStuart]

I'm feeling miserable tonight guys. I hope 2021 is better. It's been the best year having my boy but the worst at the same time. It's been hard. Feeling very sorry for myself tonight Glad I've got Tattle though


It's weird how the same usernames you see all time on these threads, especially the off topic ones, seem like better friends than you actually have in real life. (Or maybe that's just me ha? I've got tit friends )

How old is your little boy now? I think it's been very had for anyone that had a baby this year. My friends had a little boy in May, he's just gone 6 months now. She had great plans to go to all the Mum & baby groups and take him out and about everywhere but obviously that couldn't happen.

 

[Mulholland Drive]

I'm feeling miserable tonight guys. I hope 2021 is better. It's been the best year having my boy but the worst at the same time. It's been hard. Feeling very sorry for myself tonight Glad I've got Tattle though


It's weird how the same usernames you see all time on these threads, especially the off topic ones, seem like better friends than you actually have in real life. (Or maybe that's just me ha? I've got tit friends )

I can't leave this site alone, but I think in a small way the lockdown is responsible for this. Which is perhaps the only good thing I can say about it

Anyway, despite having a lazy day I am totally cream-crackered, and am now off to bed with a good book, my mp3 player and some chocolate digestives

Night all x

 

[under the ivy]

Here it is in all its glory

I have that one! Love it, Baileys lattes

 

[watermelon sugar]

How old is your little boy now? I think it's been very had for anyone that had a baby this year. My friends had a little boy in May, he's just gone 6 months now. She had great plans to go to all the Mum & baby groups and take him out and about everywhere but obviously that couldn't happen.

He's 9 months now, I was the same. I was so excited to do lots of things with him. He was born 4 weeks before lockdown so we seen our close family but most of his life has been in lockdown. I haven't seen a HV or midwife the entire time hes been here, he hasn't been weighed since he was 7 weeks old. I get on the scales with him but think its dodgy ha my family live in another town and im stuck with my boyfriends family round us, I only get to see my Mum once in a blue moon. My son doesn't recognise any of my family every time he sees them. Its so tit and depressing

Not to mention my boyfriends getting on my nerves atm too!!

 

[Mulholland Drive]

(Sorry. Just lurking while having you all in my bed with my chocolate digestives )

 

[CherryAcid]

Yay a chat thread! I discovered Tattle this year ands its been a great distraction for me. My mum's lifestyle caught up with her and shes been seriously ill(she is much better but still having to have carers daily) she got herself into a mess with finances(some in my name) which I used all my savings to clear. Shes opened up about her mental health and also dropped that my grandad and his friends would sexually abuse her. All of this and my dad suffering with depression, we cant even tell him about the finances or my mums abuse yet as hes not in the right frame of mind to deal with it. At one point i thought I was going to have a nervous breakdown.
I have had major anxiety all my life(its never been treated) due to my mum and the last 15 years or so I expected a phone call in the night expecting she had passed away.
The new year will hopefully be me getting help, I tried once and my gp brushed me off and my sister(who suffers depression herself) brushed me off too. It's hard being the "calm, organised" one, I cant tell you how many times ive cried in the shower just to let it out. I might look strong but I'm a good actress when it comes to my feelings.

Sorry this has turned into a massive vent but I feel like i needed it tonight.

 

[DCICassieStuart]

He's 9 months now, I was the same. I was so excited to do lots of things with him. He was born 4 weeks before lockdown so we seen our close family but most of his life has been in lockdown. I haven't seen a HV or midwife the entire time hes been here, he hasn't been weighed since he was 7 weeks old. I get on the scales with him but think its dodgy ha my family live in another town and im stuck with my boyfriends family round us, I only get to see my Mum once in a blue moon. My son doesn't recognise any of my family every time he sees them. Its so tit and depressing

Not to mention my boyfriends getting on my nerves atm too!!

My husband's driving me bloody insane if it makes you feel any better! His bleeping family. Seriously, I wish I'd married an orphan with no siblings! I'm looking forward to going to work tomorrow for a break

 

[JLXRD]

I feel the same about the little tattle fam I’ve found on various threads, it’s always nice when you find like minded people and find yourselves liking each other’s posts all the time!

have you guys got your Christmas decorations up yet? I had been thinking I’ll do it tomorrow but completely cba still.

 

[CherryAcid]

I feel the same about the little tattle fam I’ve found on various threads, it’s always nice when you find like minded people and find yourselves liking each other’s posts all the time!

have you guys got your Christmas decorations up yet? I had been thinking I’ll do it tomorrow but completely cba still.

Not yet, I usually put mine up around the 14th but I'm tempted to put them up next Sunday now I'm seeing everyone else with them up.

 

[Mulholland Drive]

My tree is on order via Amazon - only a small fake one as I guess I will be the only person in my home during Christmas. Although I'm hoping to get my g/f over now that BlowJob Boris has graced up with 5 days off from this lockdown cobblers.

I guess its going to be a difficult and very emotional time for a lot of people during Christmas and New Year, especially those who live alone and/or don't cope very well at this time of year regardless of Covid and the lockdown

Last day of November today, and its going to be a busy one for me, workwise. Which I'm happy about because it keeps my mind from wandering, especially when I listen to the news.


Have a great day, peeps! x

 

[watermelon sugar]

I got my tree yesterday, only an Asda one, putting it up sometime this week. Need a few more decorations for it first before I even attempt it
Dunno where we are gonna put it or how we are gonna do it because the little man is standing and rags anything that is in his view

I feel a lot better today guys. Thanks for letting me vent last night. Dunno if my boyfriends gonna do me head in yet, he's still in bed the lazy sod

 

[Itsmedoctortea]

Morning, we have a 9 week old puppy biting like mad no matter how many chew toys etc he still prefers our hands and ankles...I'm ready for the hills hope you all have a good day x

 

[Mulholland Drive]

Morning, we have a 9 week old puppy biting like mad no matter how many chew toys etc he still prefers our hands and ankles...I'm ready for the hills hope you all have a good day x

A friend of mine has a Border Terrier from a pup of about 8 weeks. And for about 5 or 6 months it would yap, bite, nip at his feet constantly.

But it was just going through a typical "teething" phase, and what my friend found once his pup had his last set of inoculations, was to take him outside for a walk (on a lead of course). After a couple of days of this the pup soon stopped the nipping

 

[Itsmedoctortea]

A friend of mine has a Border Terrier from a pup of about 8 weeks. And for about 5 or 6 months it would yap, bite, nip at his feet constantly.

But it was just going through a typical "teething" phase, and what my friend found once his pup had his last set of inoculations, was to take him outside for a walk (on a lead of course). After a couple of days of this the pup soon stopped the nipping

5-6 months we have a long way to go
Thanks for this!! A lot of patience required x

 

[watermelon sugar]

A friend of mine has a Border Terrier from a pup of about 8 weeks. And for about 5 or 6 months it would yap, bite, nip at his feet constantly.

But it was just going through a typical "teething" phase, and what my friend found once his pup had his last set of inoculations, was to take him outside for a walk (on a lead of course). After a couple of days of this the pup soon stopped the nipping

Sounds like my baby

 

[watermelon sugar]

I have that one! Love it, Baileys lattes

I went to get the Baileys ones but there were out of stock!! Gutted. Can't wait for them to be back, i love anything Baileys me

 

[under the ivy]

I went to get the Baileys ones but there were out of stock!! Gutted. Can't wait for them to be back, i love anything Baileys me

Me too! I got them in Aldi of all places. They sometimes have them on offer in the middle aisle x