I think this has more to do with individual upbringing and circumstances. I know people who grew up poor and made a lot of money later on does the exact same thing as Amie, not just buying designer clothes/bags but only the most expensive car, the most expensive and trendy restaurants, and stays only in 5-star hotels. In my instance I know men who does this rather than women, but I am limited to my understanding and social circle. I think it is more likely to occur if you grew up in a super wealthy area but you are the poorest family there, and when you are young where image and keeping up with your friends feels like the only thing that mattered and if you have really rich friends, buying ostentatious designer projects make you feel like you fit in with them.I’m not trying to be mean here but Amie seems keen to be defined by her purchases/money. The need to show she can afford designer gear, doing her house up in a showy manner, impulsive purchases (not just once but many times over) - all seems strange if she grew up with very little money. My mom came from a really poor family and while she was successful in her career and was able to afford nice things, she still couldn’t bring herself to buy a Chanel bag. There was only so much she was willing to pay for a nice bag. I’ve seen this in many of my friends as well who had a tough time growing up and while all of them have gone on to have successful jobs and a wonderful life, buying luxury and spending money on business/first class flights is still something they don’t take lightly though they can afford it many times over. I know everyone’s different but for someone who grew up with so little, I was expecting Amie to appreciate her purchases a lot more.
My family are Chinese immigrants and I lived in working class areas all my life so I wasn't exposed to or interacted with wealthy people until university. Some people I know who grew up rich adjacent were awful with money and spent everything they had to keep up appearances. I suspect that Amie might have grew up rich adjacent, considering Asians place uttermost importance on their kids education and her family probably moved to a crappy house in a good school district which is usually the rich area anyways or her family worked multiple jobs to put her through private school. She did graduate from LSE, which to me indicate that she at least had access to good secondary education.
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