Talcadidas
Chatty Member
Brenda has an interesting pattern with guys- she has a laugh with them, doesn’t actually go that far with them (Ie kisses them) and then gives them a reason to leave her OR she dumps them for a really innocent reason (one guy had a bike haha). She also dedicates herself to her job and insta so is very time poor.
It reminds me of me to a tee before I realised I was gay - I loved the idea of being with a guy, would always be dating but didn’t like going very far with them. I threw myself into my job so I became really successful. When I finally realised I was gay, dating and seeing people totally changed for me. I couldn’t imagine carrying on that way now.
I wonder if Brenda might be struggling with her sexuality (either she’s not straight or she could be a-sexual) but hasnt recognised this yet. Not that everyone needs a label. But there’s something that makes me think she’ll never have a relationship with a man.
It reminds me of me to a tee before I realised I was gay - I loved the idea of being with a guy, would always be dating but didn’t like going very far with them. I threw myself into my job so I became really successful. When I finally realised I was gay, dating and seeing people totally changed for me. I couldn’t imagine carrying on that way now.
I wonder if Brenda might be struggling with her sexuality (either she’s not straight or she could be a-sexual) but hasnt recognised this yet. Not that everyone needs a label. But there’s something that makes me think she’ll never have a relationship with a man.