This exactly! I wouldn’t be surprised if we know the same people, I too am trying to figure out how to get information out without it deeply effecting those I love. And the concerns from those close to him about his mental health and stability at the moment are very real, I just honestly don’t know at the moment what he’s capable of. One idea on the table is to present him with what we know directly and give him the option to finally come clean himself and give up the jig but again, honestly don’t think he’s mentally in a place to be rational at all. It’s a mess.
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Are you able to confirm if our suspicions are accurate about his diagnosis and the GFM money being a scam?
Id be getting Lisa alone and presenting her with the facts; sounds like she’s the one who’s potentially at risk here. Simply because, as some would suggest, if he has allegedly has been misappropriating funds for over a decade, he isn’t going to change his behaviour now. Someone who is like this, is like this. It’s not a one off mistake nor a slip up. Confronting him achieves what? Hopefully getting the money- a lot of which allegedly has been blown - back. People like him are typically likely hoping to continue to manipulate his wife, isolate her from her family and friends, paint himself to be the victim.
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I honestly don’t know how to answer this safely.
I’m on the other side of things. I don’t know Richard personally, despite noticing we have friends in common on FB. I’m on the health side, I have met a lot of people since my my diagnosis and some who are being treated at NGH, I know some medical professionals well.
I wouldnt accuse someone of lying about their prognosis unless I was sure
Are you the Reddit user who wanted to give information to one of us?
As some of you may remember, I'm a retired investigative reporter. I was once on the other side of fence a while back when I decided to become a whistleblower against my boss at a non-profit. It was tricky - I didn't want to lose my job or get the organization shuttered as they were helping people with HIV/AIDS. I wanted to expose the exec. director for being a tyrannical fraud. It was a tough needle to thread so as not to expose myself and my co-workers. The story was written but it didn't have nearly the punch it could have had I gone on the record.
All this to say I understand the complexities of who to trust with information. It's tricky here because BBro reads this thread religiously.
All this to say I understand the complexities of who to trust with information. It's tricky here because BBro reads this thread religiously.
In terms of striking that balance, could we ask the new member questions and they answer (obvs caveating it’s their opinion and it’s all alleged stuff)? Even if it’s just yes/no answers. That way this person doesn’t reveal who they are or how they know the information.
If the forum wants to nominate a trusted person I can share information with I’d be happy to speak directly to that person in strict confidence and they can confirm here that I’m legitimate? Or then again, if they came back to confirm or share what I’d said he’d know where it came from anyway. It’s a shame we don’t have a secure private platform to discuss away from prying eyes, somewhere people with info could pool what they have?
I don’t think this website allows DM but if by coincidence this rings a bell: 6:48pm “…is a really very tricky topic, but I can say there were huge concerns long before…” perhaps you could share info there? Obvs if that means nothing to you, ignore it
I don’t understand how information cannot be shared on here but it can if you speak privately to someone (who is then going to come back on here and share).
This could be Rich or Lisa trying to get personal details from us.
This could be Rich or Lisa trying to get personal details from us.
All that stuff on Reddit last night with people desperately wanting a tattle account to speak on here and I feel like I’m playing Cluedo now!
I’ve seen this happen on other threads when people allegedly have info and are begging for a code and then once they have access they never say a word 
This is how I feel about it. I mean, no one expected us all to have a WhatsApp group about him did they? We all talk on tattle. we don’t know each other at all and there is no way anyone will provide private details for a chat off here. I wouldn’t even offer up my burner account or burner email address to privately message on.All very fishy to me
Someone desperately waited weeks to get on to tattle to share stuff that they wouldn't disclose until they got on tattle. Now on tattle wanting to tell one person but in private, what's the point of this? Make it make sense.
All very silly this cloak and dagger stuff. If you know something then just say because it could literally be anyone ie Northampton Hospital the Hospice any number of friends of friends family even Jamie the private consultant seriously let’s be honest we already know he’s stolen the GFM money and lying about his cancer staging that much is obvious. I don’t see believe Lisa is in any danger this is crazy. I’m sorry but I’m highly suspicious.
This group is not willing to risk being doxxed. I'm sure anyone from the Reddit thread can understand. We've seen him do it.
I’m messaging talcadidas now, they can decide for themselves if I’m being genuine, and share with you their findings.
I HAVE been reading here for weeks, whilst putting together pieces that we have seen with our own eyes. I am not the only one who is reading here trying to decide what’s best to do. As much as you are desperate to see a conclusion and comeuppance, we feel obliged to help this happen AND protect very real and very innocent people. It’s not as if I have a handbook for this absolute batshittery nor really know how to proceed. I’m sorry if my replies aren’t quick enough or juicy enough but you all seem like very smart people, you must be able to see the difficulty of someone who has loved ones involved? What would you do?
I HAVE been reading here for weeks, whilst putting together pieces that we have seen with our own eyes. I am not the only one who is reading here trying to decide what’s best to do. As much as you are desperate to see a conclusion and comeuppance, we feel obliged to help this happen AND protect very real and very innocent people. It’s not as if I have a handbook for this absolute batshittery nor really know how to proceed. I’m sorry if my replies aren’t quick enough or juicy enough but you all seem like very smart people, you must be able to see the difficulty of someone who has loved ones involved? What would you do?
So so desperate to get in here then what ??? Sfa nada just nonsense.
Im sorry if you are genuine and are trying to do the right thing. It’s just that we know how nasty and abusive that man is, if he had any inclination who one of us were, especially one of us on that list that was posted, I don’t trust what he would do. We think he’s lying, we think he’s a fraud and people do irrational things to save themselves.
No one forced you on here it’s your choice and all I’m reading is nonsense about protecting loved ones etc every single person is innocent who has bought his book and trusted him and are about to buy more. If you really know something then go to the police it’s that simple!!
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