Better Being Steph

[MilkAndTwoSugars]

First time poster here - I am posting from a place of concern as someone that has done the full recovery of an eating disorder when I look at Stephs posts I just feel so sad for her as she is still 1000 percent in the rabbit hole of her ED and behaviours. A huge part of an ED is this need to control the situation and structure and routine no matter what - lack of flexibility etc and unfortunately Steph can’t see she is still holding on to these behaviours. No matter what anyone else around her tells her these behaviours will be in play until she chooses to get and commit to full uncontrolled recovery

yep!!

 

[BooBoobedoo]

I saw in her stories recently that she did 100kg hip thrusts despite being post op. SMH

 

[kayls11]

wow, chill the hell out Steph! The user was just genuinely asking how you manage to heat fish at work, no need to fly off the handle! something tells me she's been reading here for her to get THAT worked up over an innocent message.

If she’s eating cold fish, veggies and rice that’s even grosser not only does she stink out the office but doesn’t even get to enjoy a warm meal- no winners in that scenario. Why does she get so passionately upset about the smallest bit of commentary anyway

 

[Victoria212]

She binge eats. She’s certainly not fat at all but the lifestyle she portrays and the way she looks so not add up one bit

Agree. She exercises 7 days a week and essentially lives off steamed veg, fish and weetbix. She looks like a size 12-14 to me - absolutely nothing wrong with that, but given the lifestyle she shows us I would expect her to be much smaller. Unless years of ED's have messed up her metabolism?

 

[MilkAndTwoSugars]

200 floors with a 7kg weight?! who actually does this?!

 

[hereforthedrammas]

I don’t understand why she couldn’t stay in nz a bit longer to grieve with her family… it’s not like she has the receptionist job or uni anymore, but she had to go home and ‘sort out her life’

 

[MilkAndTwoSugars]

3:45am wake ups so she can go to the gym before work?! ridiculous!

 

[MilkAndTwoSugars]

"the run started in tears".... surely not, like actually not?! there's more upsetting stuff happening in the world right now rather than crying over a run (that noone forced her to do). fml

 

[influencerschminzuer]

It’s a rest day but she was up before 4am to walk on the treadmill…

It’s just sad. I wish she’d get a new therapist to help her with this unhealthy behaviour.

 

[influencerschminzuer]

Someone needs to do a life update please

 

[Moonphase]

Every story feels like Groundhog Day with this girl. And how diabolical is running on a stair master?!

 

[influencerschminzuer]

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this is dinner? A tin of spring water tuna and some steamed vegetables? No rice or carbs? Why would she even be posting this disordered meal?

I thought she was a receptionist? Why would she be alone in the office with no clients or other staff? She seems the type to do unpaid overtime.

That meal looks bland AF. Prison food is probably more appetising.

 

[MilkAndTwoSugars]

Who is Janey and how much was she paid to do this?!! probably a family member.... the review seems a bit OTT.

 

[MilkAndTwoSugars]

I don’t understand why she couldn’t stay in nz a bit longer to grieve with her family… it’s not like she has the receptionist job or uni anymore, but she had to go home and ‘sort out her life’

couldnt cope without working out obsessively at 4am, and her new hobby of long distance running

 

[lilpickle]

"his lisp gives me life" ?!! why can't these instagrammers just talk like normal human beings?!!

So many of her answers to the questions show she knows there is a thread about her. And guess what. She isn’t wrong. She really is boring as fuck.

 

[how.now.brown.cow]

3:45am?!!

Ridiculous, if she got a good night's sleep she would probably feel a lot better!

 

[bonni03]

I’m sorry, WHY the need to walk for 2 hours on a ReST dAy? Like, what? Am I missing something? Isn’t a rest day, um, I don’t know, a REST DAY?

must walk 20,000 steps a day

 

[Moonphase]

Does she think she’s getting some sort of award for working out and going to work while she’s unwell? It seems to be a pretty consistent behaviour for her.

 

[MilkAndTwoSugars]

apparently a follower telling her (trying to reassure her) the fact that there is a panic button in the MRI machine was the wrong thing to say….. God Steph is hard work.!

 

[MilkAndTwoSugars]

out walking at 4:23am…. shes nuts! absolutely
nuts and needs to get a life.