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Budgiesmuggler said:
She did/does battle with anorexia but has no trouble plugging apitite suppressing drinks not long ago, the only reason she stopped was because her followers complained to her about it. I followed Becky for a long time she is definitely out for what she can get, and puts on an “ everyone’s friend” persona for show
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Ohhh, I think I remember the coffee drinks, and didn’t she get her husband to start them?

I noticed she had started working out recently too when she’s so thin already and admitted in her mind she’s struggling again. That and all the spending, excessive decorating, she’s trying to find ways to cope with her issues.

I havent watched her that often but had just noticed how quiet she seems suddenly when I have gone on her stories.
 
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Libby31 said:
Ohhh, I think I remember the coffee drinks, and didn’t she get her husband to start them?

I noticed she had started working out recently too when she’s so thin already and admitted in her mind she’s struggling again. That and all the spending, excessive decorating, she’s trying to find ways to cope with her issues.

I havent watched her that often but had just noticed how quiet she seems suddenly when I have gone on her stories.
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Yeah she got Jason on them because according to her he’s a “ large bas**rd” 😳 I saw the running post but that could be down to lack of fitness and not really much to do with weight? Who knows?
Her decorating she just seems to continually paint the same wall over and over again ( surprised it’s not fallen down yet) 🤣 then all the new free blankets lights etc come rolling in! see a pattern??

She has been quiet maybe because she’s not really got anything to talk about, she’s not that relatable not everyone can afford to decorate & accessorise their homes every few months etc
 
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Budgiesmuggler said:
Yeah she got Jason on them because according to her he’s a “ large bas**rd” 😳 I saw the running post but that could be down to lack of fitness and not really much to do with weight? Who knows?
Her decorating she just seems to continually paint the same wall over and over again ( surprised it’s not fallen down yet) 🤣 then all the new free blankets lights etc come rolling in! see a pattern??

She has been quiet maybe because she’s not really got anything to talk about, she’s not that relatable not everyone can afford to decorate & accessorise their homes every few months etc
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Becky said in a story last week she’s wasnt happy with how she looked so she was going to do it the sensible way this time and just workout, so I’m guessing that it’s because of her weight she’s unhappy, which she definitely doesn’t need to be but I know that’s not how she sees it due to her illness,

I didn’t watch her strories for a few months and then when I returned to Instagram before Christmas her living room had gone from yellow to green, I was very surprised. Then all the new accessories, it is excessive and so wasteful.
 
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Libby31 said:
Becky said in a story last week she’s wasnt happy with how she looked so she was going to do it the sensible way this time and just workout, so I’m guessing that it’s because of her weight she’s unhappy, which she definitely doesn’t need to be but I know that’s not how she sees it due to her illness,

I didn’t watch her strories for a few months and then when I returned to Instagram before Christmas her living room had gone from yellow to green, I was very surprised. Then all the new accessories, it is excessive and so wasteful.
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I didn’t see those stories, I suffer with body dismorphia and know how it can effect you but to go on national tv about it but was peddeling apitie suppresents is disgusting....

It is excessive and I think it annoys people with the free gifts she constantly gets when their are other people more deserving than someone who constantly changes colours, and her attitude towards things like the “ if not pre a proved gift I will not show it on my page”
And the I don’t want was melts etc its Arrogant and that’s why people don’t like...
 
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Budgiesmuggler said:
I didn’t see those stories, I suffer with body dismorphia and know how it can effect you but to go on national tv about it but was peddeling apitie suppresents is disgusting....

It is excessive and I think it annoys people with the free gifts she constantly gets when their are other people more deserving than someone who constantly changes colours, and her attitude towards things like the “ if not pre a proved gift I will not show it on my page”
And the I don’t want was melts etc its Arrogant and that’s why people don’t like...
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Oh I had no idea she refused wax melts. That’s sad as there are some lovely little businesses on there.

I did notice she doesn’t shout-out any followers that support her, many accounts do big or small.
 
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I’ve followed Becky since about November (she is how I know about this forum) I followed her because of her ott love for Christmas 😂. I don’t know much about Becky’s life but I’m going to assume she had issues as a child, maybe lots of siblings or a lack of attention from parents.

She has classic low self esteem and she uses Instagram to gain validation. She literally couldn’t cope without it now and would spiral down into a low mood if she had to delete it.

Her excessive buying/decorating is the same as Hinch’s excessive cleaning/buying, It’s a way of feeling superior to other people. It gives her a chance to feel like she’s the best at something and assert control over something and the followers back this up. It’s a narsassitic trait but that doesn’t mean she has the personality disorder.

You’ll notice now Becky has lost control again she’ll be quieter do less in the house, less decorating, less buying. More exercising. People will reach out to her on and offline and validate her need for admiration. She’ll get a grip of the self esteem again and you’ll see less exercising and weight loss and more buying and decorating. Becky’s need for control manifests in weight loss which is the worst thing she can do because it’s destroyed her looks and at her age anymore weight loss will age her terribly. Botox can’t fix the damage to her face, it’s very sad and I do feel for her. She needs to see a therapist not the treadmill.
 
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Twittwat said:
When has she mentioned this forum? I’ve never seen her mention it
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I don’t think she has but some women I speak to on Instagram told me she was on here and to check the thread out.
 
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