The latest video on behavior feels like a direct response to us… lol
Exactly!
Clearly Val is trying to " colourfully" grab hold of HER narrative after reading here and seeing how REAL parents/families of autistic children live and cope and HELP their children. The only idiots who buy into her bullshit are the weird followers who have no clue what autism is.
The REAL autistic community see straight through her lies, abuse and manipulation.
In today's Q and A...Val basically admits to everything that's been said here...
She doesn't look at Jess as having had behaviours which is why at 35 she's feral like an animal...ZERO direction, zero tools taught to cope with life...Val blames everyone else for not understanding Jessica. Val refused to listen to professionals , therapist , doctors teachers etc... ( obviously my words hit her where She lives as shes quoting them)
I agree with the fact that parents / caregivers have to be listened to....we do have to participate in our children's education and HELP THEM to cope, express themselves and to help them navigate the world...it's NOT up to us to blame and try changing the world to cope and comply with all our children's needs... That's not reality period.
Jessica is groomed and prompted as to how to act on cam...also they edit and jump cut every video removing all of Jessica's outbursts , inappropriate behaviour and language ..then acting like yes...Jessica is always pleasant....we KNOW that's a lie.
She's loud mouthy rude and abusive to the animals and anyone who crosses her, the poor cat isn't even allowed in the house because Jessica hates ALL animals including zoey...but Val lies to Jess saying Zoey is hers so Val can keep her.
Val has to keep Jessica at home, quit her job, have 3 adults living under the roof AND pay Marlow ( not a professional just a babysittter) to ALL help in the daily care of sweet pleasant Jessica..if she has no behavioural issues why does it take 4 adults to deal with her.
Jessica is a perfect example of what happens when professionals are not included as part of the team... No therapists no teachers...no one. Just crazy mom, her sons ex girlfriend and the hypochondriac sister Hannah.... As long as everyone does what control freak Vale says...all's good!
Val talks about giving Jessica respect...
Is lying to her about buying a house, Moving to Disney, becoming a nurse, filming her right out of bed looking like an old homeless bag lady respectful? Telling her to study? For her nursing... Having your sons ex help bathe her???
Val is a typical abuser...control freak, isolating Jessica from medical care, therapists, any professionals , teachers....etc... Only are you allowed into the inner sanctum of bat shit crazinesss if you adhere to follow the rules Val provides.
Vals RULES and Requirements:
Everyone must lie to Jessica on a daily basis, keep up the story of Jess moving out with her girlfriend after she finishes nursing school and can independently cook her chicken nuggets.
No one is permitted to correct, redirect, discipline or teach Jessica anything ever...
Jessica is allowed to do, say whatever she wants or Val tells her to say...everything can be edited out for appearances later.
You must agree to take a shift deleting any and all messages on FB that calls out any of the Brooks family members.
You must never disagree with Val or Jessica or expose the lies Val spreads...
You must get/ change all your credit cards to the Disney rewards program and contribute to Vals Disney obsession and vacations.
You must tell Jessica a dozen times a day she has anxiety..
Learning to be a grifter on YouTube would be an asset.
Ample house keeping skills and dog walking are requirements
And finally... You must be able to take being screamed at by feral Jessica, schlaaaaaaped, groped and used as her slave/ maid.
Careful Val....your desperation is showing.