Let the GRIFTINNNG...begin!!!!
There was absolutely no reason for Jessica to bring up her birthday which is about 4 weeks away....not that she would even think to bring it up as they were leaving to go to dinner.
We know how it works....
Something had Jessica in a foul mood....and Val pulls out her bag of tricks to make Jessica happy! ( offer to make a video, remind her it's her job. She gets money, tell your viewers your birthday is coming so they can send you presents! Ask her to go out to eat CHICKEN! Bribe her with two servings of chocolate desserts!! Etc...)
Val said want to do a video ,Jessica said sure! Then Val turned on he cam..and Jessica asked what do I say...?
Val told her exactly what to say telling her she could mention her birthdays going up...that gives the kool aid drinkers who are being used to finance Disney and a few little "secrets" Val has under wraps, also these free gifts help Vals pocket book as she now has to buy less for Jessica.
Notice this evening mommy sat on the other side of the table and didn't have jessica in her lap...that's Val showing us she reads here without saying she reads here!!
waves..." hello Val"
Here's one of the typical exchanges Jessica has with Val...
" mommy..your Bessy's sad? " repeats it again . .. " Your Bessie is sad? "
Then Val informs Jessica she's not sad but very happy!
"No Ma'am...your Bessie is soooo happy NOW...she's going out to eat a lot this week..."
So this is the typical exchange we see after Jessica has clearly had a tantrum ...I recognize it for exactly what it is....over what? Probably food, someone touched something of hers, she's eavesdrop and heard something she wasn't suppose to or..she didn't like what Hannah was making for dinner and wanted to eat out again . We all know everyone must follow the Jessica Rules the house rules... Implemented by Val..head nut of the Brooks Asylum and Porn Headquarters.
So...we can tell Val bribbed Jessica to " make her Bessie happy" with dinner out, AGAIN this week...( Never really knowing what day of the week that may be) but none the less..this is how Val deals with Jessica....not teaches her...deals with her, to basically shut her up. Make her happy so everyone can exhale and stop walking on egg shells to please Boss Jessica.
This behaviour from Jessica...at 36, is ridiculous and simply intentional manipulation on her part because Val has taught her along with everyone under the same roof... Their Bessie MUST be happy at all costs, even if that means lying to her, giving her chocolate cake 3times a day, letting her text everyone at 3 am, praising her while she bosses everyone around and orders them to clean her bed, be quiet, get out of the house, announcing who is allowed to eat what and how much....
Everyone must tell Jessica how proud they are of her for ordering strimp....instead of chicken fingers and no one is ever permitted to correct jessica and her mispronounced words, or tell her to sit up, or stop using her hands to eat......Jessica has no rules, no boundaries and no consequences...ever. Only praise, baby talk, bribes of junk food and basically any and everything she wants...your Bessie MUST be happy at all costs even if that means you have to sacrifice your happiness a hundred times a day.
Raising a nonverbal autistic 26 yr. Old I have first hand experience of the work, the trials and tribulations of teaching, parenting and learning myself how to do what's best for her to help her strive,be successful and grow....my biggest goal for her is to step into the world and have a softer landing by using tools she's been taught, by being educated on the world around her, some sense of safety of familiarity that she herself will recognise ....and it will helped her to participate in life outside of the house....out of her comfort zone. She deserves to be TAUGHT how to cope with fear, sadness, uncertainty .....how to protect herself ,ask for help, she deserves to have life skills!
It's WORK...it's hard,it's redundant , time consuming .... Repetitive and requires .consistancy, strength and patience ..more then I have some days....but our daughter deserves it!!
Val neglected to do any of this for Jessica because she's never been a good loving parent, she's never put any of her children's needs ahead of her own...ever. Vals the victim in her story....everything she does is to make Vals life easier ...... She doesn't spoil Jessica in the regular sense ...she actually spoils herself by letting herself off the hook from any parenting , teaching, responsibility of blame ....it's everyone elses fault, teachers, therapists, doctors, nurses, other family members, autism , mild CPP....etc.... Never Vals fault .
Val has passed off her role, her job, her responsibilities as Jessica mother,care giver and protector since day 1.
The fact Val lost custody of Jessica for the first few years of her life speaks volumes to the type of mother, of woman she was....and still is today.
Tonight's video ....another example of the neglected 36 year old feral,bratty, ill mannered manipulative Jessica....who reminds us of her upcoming birthday and reminds her mommy.... "Your Bessie is happy .....now".
Good job Val.