Princess didn’t receive a reply to her text in a timely manner. Causing major anxiety . Exhibiting bad behaviour because not everybody’s life revolves around her. People have lives to live, that don’t include Jessica. Dinner was cancelled, yet takeout was a substitution, hell no, cold cereal would be my solution. Imagine that “anxiety “.
I'm a huge advocate for awareness....I believe educating the public just makes the world a better place and a more accessible environment for people with various disabilities such as autism.
That being said I don't ever expect the world to make exceptions for my autistic child, the same rules, boundaries and rights apply period.
As a parent it's our obligation to raise , teach, educate and prepare our children for life and how to cope and be an active part of their community ...regardless if your child is neurodivergent or not.
Val expects everyone to baby Jessica, as Vals raised her with no rules, boundaries or consequences...as we've said she's pretty much feral pushing 40 and would eat soup with her hands if she was not constantly reminded to get a spoon. She is rude has zero understanding of personal space, she is unable to cope with anything she doesn't like , she can not coexist with anyone outside of family.
Jessica has learned how to hold the entire family hostage with the help of Val and the absence of any and all professionals to help her. Val is " afraid" of Jessica because Val is lazy and it's easier to give in then to teach, restrict, apply consequences in order to redirect bad behaviours ...it's hard..and in Jessica s case too late, all this should of been done from the beginning, now at 36... She's been conditioned to always get her way, to be lazy always saying she doesn't know where stuff is like dishes, milk etc... She knows but also knows HOW to manipulate Val 100%.
So Jessica demands everyone treat her exactly like Val at all times no matter what....or else she will have a tantrum and make everyone's life miserable ...period.
This has now become quite obvious in Vals constant exasperation and heavy sighed expressionless smiles ...she's run down ,tired and we see Jessica getting worse and worse...
None of this will end well for Val.