Also, that last tiktok was crying about people getting involved when they don't need to - babe, you've put this all out there! I didn't know anything about this until I saw YOUR tiktok! Should have dealt with it all in private and no-one would be making comments.I’m not buying any of it either.
The last video she posted yesterday is basically telling everyone not directly involved to back off, because she’s not coping and if she kills herself then nobody gets the photos. She then goes on to criticise the couple who made a video calling her a scammer.
She was ignoring the people who were directly involved for years. Of course people not directly involved are going to I’ve something to say about it.
Maybe she didn’t set out to scam people. But disability and illness doesn’t give you the right to hold on to people’s money and years down the line still not deliver the goods.
I noticed the similarities to how Carrie of Redhead Residence speaks too! I’ve also noticed her try to signal that she has other conditions too in some of her comments, like the attached, where she’s trying to suggest she has ARFID without explicitly stating it (probably in the hopes someone else will pick up on it) she goes on in another video after this one claims she does have it, since I guess nobody picked up on it from that attention seeking comment. As someone who struggles with ARFID myself (it’s a type of eating disorder that can be common in those with ASD) this really riled me up. Having ARFID isn’t all heart eyes and love emojis, it’s fucking awful. I hate having to eat the same crap every day. It’s taken a huge toll on my physical health, my relationships and my entire life. It makes me soo angry that she’s allHer apology video was the first I knew of her - or so I thought. After looking at her profile I realise I'd previously seen her pinned video reacting to a comment about her getting a job.
It doesn't make sense to me at all how one year you can be capable of being a photographer - a very socially demanding job in terms of being approachable, friendly, easy to work with etc (I 100% wouldn't be capable of it!) and then a few years later be unable to speak fluently and make 'eye contact' with your camera. Does autism really work like that? I thought you 'regress' into it in your early years and then that's who you are...
Okay, so let's say she is suffering from fibromyalgia (another munchie favourite). I understand not being able to be a photographer anymore, as it is physically demanding. But editing photos on a screen? Not even editing but even just sorting and processing the raw files into something that can be sent out? Surely that's no less demanding than making all these bloody tik toks fighting with every comment that tells her to get a job.
I think she's full of shit personally. I've also noticed her speech pattern (edit - when she feels like it) is very similar to Carrie Redhead (redheadresidence) who has waldmanns disease. Wonder if that's another little snippet of personality snatching
I think she’s even worse than Jack Monroe because it looks like she’s actually done the work for some but is still refusing to send the raw files with various excuses. So either she’s lost them or she’s being deliberately extra malicious and either way that’s awful.There’s no excuse for what she’s done to those people. It’s very Jack Monroe, taking money and delivering nothing but excuses. Plenty of people with autism are self-employed and manage their own deadlines and honour their commitments (myself included) but these grifters use it as an excuse to rip people off. I’m sick of it now.
It just shows how precious the photos are. Far more important than the money to them. It must be heartbreaking to not have any, or very few photos of your wedding.I just saw a video from someone that hasn't got their photos and they (and others) have agreed to buy the memory sticks and send her prepaid envelopes so all she has to do is put the raw filess on and send them back... these couples are saints
I think she has the photos but saw it as a way to try and get money from people.It just shows how precious the photos are. Far more important than the money to them. It must be heartbreaking to not have any, or very few photos of your wedding.
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I wonder if she thought it was an opportunity to get even more money out of people when she first started talking about needing a go fund me for various things. Hopefully the backlash has stopped that in its tracks. She needs to just get the pics to them or confess if she no longer has them.
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Are we also meant to believe DWP have been inundated with people reporting her? How would they know any other details apart from her name? Feels like another manipulative lie to make people feel sorry for her.
I saw that video. I hope she does do it, but there are plenty of options to share the files online that could be done today, this seems like it’s buying her more time. I know the files are big but there are things like drop box offers a 30 day free trial for a business account with several TB of storage, is one example off the top of my head. I am sceptical that the flash drives will be returned but time will tell.I just saw a video from someone that hasn't got their photos and they (and others) have agreed to buy the memory sticks and send her prepaid envelopes so all she has to do is put the raw filess on and send them back... these couples are saints
Completely agree- DWP would have no way of finding her based on first and middle name, and even if they could work out who the report was regarding they wouldn’t just call her to say hi, you’re getting mass reported… rubbish.---
Are we also meant to believe DWP have been inundated with people reporting her? How would they know any other details apart from her name? Feels like another manipulative lie to make people feel sorry for her.
Why does she need to pay to access the photos?She popped up on my fyp shortly before the photography dram and boy have I wanted to discuss it all
She does come off as very performative. From the fidget toys, to the purposefully not looking at the camera, to even the tone of voice. There’s nothing at all that feels “genuine” about it and it feels very carefully crafted to give a very one dimensional view
The not looking at the camera specifically is just pure silly imo
Her “apology” videos all came off as “me me me”. Going so far as to throw in suicide and her dog. A lot of it wasn’t relevant to the fact that these couples don’t have the photos
I don’t think it matters if the couples send her USBs. In her original video she said she’d have to pay to access the photos to begin with and that she doesn’t have the money to do that. I expect her to come up with another excuse because I suspect the photos are long gone
I'm wondering the same wouldn't she just save them to her computer?Why does she need to pay to access the photos?
I’m actually wrong and I rewatched both of the videos:Why does she need to pay to access the photos?
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