Are we too hard on ashy about the whole taj thing or is she a tit mother? Isn’t it normal for kids to have meltdowns? I will say tho, I can’t believe any mother would Leave their newborn as much as she leaves tala like lala
She’s a
tit head mother. i have 2 kids, 1 diagnosed with 2 disabilities and the other is mostly typical with sensory processing issues. both have meltdowns, oldest undiagnosed is similar age to Taj, they’re infrequent but still happen especially after long weeks at school. the absolute last thing you do in a meltdown is film it or post it. you jump in and you give them whatever they need, could be deep pressure, rocking, humming, or supervised space while they let it all out and make sure they’re safe, whatever they require. it’s not funny cute or relatable. it’s embarrassing, they’re in deep distress when they hit that level and humiliating them or publicly sharing it is just absolutely abhorrent behaviour. the best antidote at these ages to a meltdown is co-regulation from a calm and focused adult who can bring them safety. not shove a
bleeping phone in their face
also sorry if this sounds harsh to you

not my intention whatsoever!!!! a very reasonable question. i can’t pretend to hide my frustration at trashy over how
tit she treats them. i feel so bad for Taj especially.
Also, feed Talala when she fkn wakes up. she’s 6 months old. how is she so
tit at parenting it’s honestly not rocket science 🫣 a baby that age isn’t expected to do 12 hours so mummy can get her sleep

she could have had a poo, been hungry or thirsty, or just needed some comfort?!?! my oldest still calls out occasionally after a bad dream. gaaaaah i cannot stand anything about her

everything she does is just
tit.